This summer i fell in love with one of my best guy friends and then he moved away but before i left i never told him how i felt and now we still talk and he tells me he loved me to. Now both of us are really upset that we didn't tell eachother earlier. NOw i feel really bad and i have a broken heart and i would like adivise to help me possibly get over him?
2007-03-18 15:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well for one...even if you had told him...it woldnt change the fact that he was moving. you know...and you cant jus get over him...tryin to get over him would be like sayin you dont give a f--k about him. and i know youdont feel that way. so stay in contact with him, be a good friend like you been doin and then if its meant to be. then you will be with him one day. but for now. jus do what chu been doin. be a good friend, but still date cuz ya'll not together. but you know. jus make sure ya'll have an understandin of what you want to happen. like ask him would him wanna be with you one day. and does he see you guys bein together...ok
2007-03-18 15:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that wats in the past is in the past its really hard to get over things trust me i know the thing that helped to get over "him" when he moved away was i thought of the guys that were available and that i could possibly get with.
At first it was hard for me too,but after a while I figured that unless he was coming back i better move on and soon i did and I still miss him alot and we talk but now i can talk to him and i can feel better about being away from him. Once you move on life between you and "HIM".
Everyone is different and every body has a different theory but if you find wat works for you then you go with it you don't have to go step by step and word for word of what people say once you find what works don't let people persuade you from what you are doing!!!!!!!!
2007-03-18 16:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by babyk_150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i know this really wont help but you wont be able to get past this until you are able to face the truth and that is that you probably will never get over him, you may move past it but you wont ever really get past it. i kinda feel the same way about a friend of mine and now its been so long im not sure if she still likes me anymore and im way too scared to ask her. all im trying to say is dont worry about it TOO much and hope, wish, pray for the best.
2007-03-18 15:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawww the same thing happened to my classmate...but it's such a sad thing, you know girl, you should tell him what you feel to because when it comes to an end it will be too late, infact he tells that he loves...i think it's your turn. yeah i know it's a sad thing that you did'nt show each other your real feelings for each other,but maybe there are some other times to see him RIGHT...c'mon don't loose hope...try to have a plan...what if you meet to a very romantic place...AAWWW then this is the day to show your FEELINGS FOR HIM!!!
luck!
2007-03-18 16:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it isnt easy geetin over some one you love espcailly if u have a strong bond but no matter what you gotta be strong but first see if he wanna fix it so u 2 can be together if he atleast tries go with him dats a keeper if he dont then hey i hate to say but u gotta let him go mr right will come dont worry..
2007-03-18 15:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no easy way to get over love everything you do will remind you of him once you are in love.
2007-03-18 15:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and join him ...have you never seen "the Graduate"?
2007-03-18 15:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋