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It seems that when I go out , I get at least one hateful glare or dirty look from a complete stranger. I am not white , but I dress nice , I have good hygene, and I act polite. I don't understand why people give me these stares that they obviously don't like me. I am not ugly. I am just average looking.

2007-03-18 15:42:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Etiquette

23 answers

Sometimes I do. That is not your problem, it is theirs. Your goal should be to treat everyone the way you would want to be treated. What they do on their side is between them and their God. You have done what is required of you. May God Bless U.

2007-03-18 15:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I dont get hatefull glares but i notice alot of the younger kids ( 5 to 8 yrs old ) usually stare at me for no reason..like when im at the store or somewhere

2007-03-18 22:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

I might get hateful stares too, but I probably wouldn't notice. My husband tells me that I walk around in my own personal "happy bubble." I'm sure it's nothing you're doing. Some people are just not nice.

2007-03-18 23:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by HC 2 · 0 0

I have had people stop talking when I walk into a store and stare or a group will part when I walk by. I had one lady hit her boyfriend in the arm to look at me, He was eating at their table in a restaurant and NOT even looking at me, she smacked him and pointed at me. I still do not know why..

I once had a lady whisper to her man " those can't be real" (you know, my boobs) Mine are VERY much REAL.. I thought that was funny..

2007-03-18 22:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 1 0

When I pick my daughter up from school I get those looks. I don't understand it , maybe its because I'm the only mother not wearing pj's to school. It's funny the trashy people look at me like I'm the trash.

2007-03-18 22:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Some people are just b*tchy. I do occasionally, but it could be for anything. I have a big mouth, so I tend to assume it is that. But it could be because I'm not white. Or because my boyfriend is. Or because I'm fat. I try not to assume it's because of those reasons though.

2007-03-18 22:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Everyone gets them from time to time. Don't worry about it or give it a second thought. As long as they practice the "Look but don't touch" policy, who cares that people dislike your attention to your hygiene and well grooming.

Keep your head.

2007-03-19 10:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by سيف الله بطل ‎جهاد‎ 6 · 0 0

Well people do it all the time, i dont do it on purpose, it only when i have bad days


Maybe they could be a rascist or just having a bad day too but dont let that bother youu

2007-03-18 22:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by big_rodney101 2 · 1 0

they might have problems because the same things happen to everyone even the strangers they might think that other people are watching them so they act really mean

2007-03-18 22:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by A.J 1 · 0 0

My problem is just the opposite. People always talk to me, especially to ask for directions. Don't know why.

2007-03-19 00:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by sandiemaye 4 · 0 0

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