i like this guy, but i think he's gay?

Question

so this guy is super cute, and flirts with me alot
i don't know if he's gay though, he's like obsessed with his hair, he talks gay, loves talking about clothes and shopping, and is mostly friends with girls. but on his facebook its says interested in women.
how do i know if he's gay, or how can i find out????
help!

Answer 1

that's a tough one you don't want to kiss him if he might be gay . or bi . that is foolish and deadly.
he sounds gay . ask him if he knows any music from musicals and ask him about old movie stars female ones they all seem to love that oh and shoes if he likes your shoes and knows anything at all about them then he is gay.
also get a ball and play catch with him if he throws like a girl then gay . another thing you should do is just say tell some jokes about the gays. see if he gets mad . only a gay man gets mad about gay guy jokes . still another is ask him if he gives blood . and ask him if he has ever had a HIV test .
cook a big steak and potato and don't give him a knife if he picks it up and bites it then he is most likely not gay . most real men will just go cave man on a good steak.
that's about all other then asking him if he likes to pack fudge.

Answer 2

Yes, he's gay or maybe he is just a wannabe gay guy. Gay guys are always the cutest and hottest because they know how to dress up and look nice. Ive had some mini crushes on guys who were cute, but then found out they were gay afterwards. haha, the hot ones are always gay!

Answer 3

I think the best way to find out this sort of thing is causally mention it to one of his "girl"friends and comment like: "Why is it all the cute ones are guy or taken?" She might say something like: "I know like (boy's name) is gay/or has a girlfriend. Or you could always track down an ex of his.

Don't be too quick to judge though, okay? Could just be more caring the rougher sport freak/ prevert. :)

Answer 4

Get to know him better. Soon when the time is right if you go somewhere bring up a topic about homosexuals and how Bush discarded homosexual marriages. If he begins to reply ask him. But in a polite way. If he says no and asks you why tell him that you were curious and that you ask your friends all the time. If he says yes than that is you answer.

Answer 5

well some guys jus have feminine ways. you know...but if he talks gay tho...i wouldnt really get too involved wit him like that. LOL> i mean. he may flirt with chu. but gay guys still flirt wit girls and play around. and he's probably in the closet(Down Low) like doesnt want to admit he's gay but its clear that he is.

Answer 6

Just talk to him about it, and be sure to make it clear that you are asking only because you are concerned, and it's okay for him to tell the truth because it won't change anything (except for the fact that you like him).

Answer 7

Thats a metrosexual not a homosexual.... Not all gays are metros, and not all metros are gays. Show him your breasts. If he doesnt jump to get them i the first 10 seconds or doesnt say anything, beggin to worry.

Answer 8

the same exact thing happened to me.. so i met this guy at work and i thought he was hot!! but he acted really really GAY!! but he'd give me mixed signals.... so what i did was..... ASK him out!!! it turned out that he wasn't gay and he really liked me too!! so just ask him out or something... i was a little bit of a chicken and i texted him!! but at least i did it!! so you go and ask that guy out young lady!! you never know, he might like you too :) if he doesn't well at least you tried!

Answer 9

he probably isnt lying if its his face book. i know a guy like that and he has been with his gf for 2 yrs. some guys just fool you like that

Answer 10

Could be Bi or a metrosexual. You're going to have to ask him.