my boyfriend and i just had our 32nd month anniversary. it just so happened to be on st. partrics day so i got every thing planned for us to go out and practically spend the whole day together. Somthing beyond my control happend and was not able to hang out with him. so since he couldn't be with me, he went out with his brother and his girl...but he also decided to call this other chick up and invite her too. im not a moronic jealous girl but he KNOWS that this girl has a crush on him...he told me himself.. but then after the movie he had the nerve to text me and say "i feel so bad you should be here not her" i love my boo, but im sick of his mess... what should i do?
2007-03-18 15:35:17 · 9 answers · asked by destiny4prez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would. After 32 months your relationship should have moved way beyond the whole "going out and partying with out my significant other" stage. If your guy wanted to hang out with some of his friends, drink a green beer or two, get his Irish up, that is cool.... but to track down a woman to hang out with? If it is not his sister I would be pissed... and maybe even then if his sister was HOT!. You have been with this guy for over two years? By this time he should know that what happens to you happens to him... If you don't go out, he does not go out. I don't see him texting you as nice.... I see it as throwing the situation in your face.... good luck, but yeah, I would be upset with him.
2007-03-18 15:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, I understand going out for st.pattie's day, but 32nd month anniversary? are you serious?
second of all, that situation does sound a little sketchy. I mean, why would he feel bad about her being there if he just wanted her to come as a friend. sounds like someone needs a talkin to.
*edit* I just read the post someone posted above me... she said "If you don't go out, he does not go out.".... let the man keep his balls... don't be that girl, BUT I'm not saying its cool for him to go on double dates with other girls after almost 3 years.
2007-03-18 23:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by fleisch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was thinking of you the whole time. Whats the problem?
And who celebrates their 32nd month anniversary?
2007-03-18 22:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A MANIPULATOR that DID that JUST to "teach you a lesson" dis him? Get PUNISHED! Its classic abusive behavior. Does he tell you how to dress? When to call HIM? Who you can TALK too?
If ANY OF THESE ARE TRUE?
DUMP HIM before you end up married and being a DOOR MAT.
If YOU truly KNOW he LOVES YOU And that YOU love him... then speak up NOW and let him know that you will NOT be treated like THAT. If you do NOT speak UP for yourself you are setting up your life for hardship and being under his thumb.
2007-03-18 22:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him you are a little thrown off by his actions. As long as this never happens again, then don't be too mad. I mean, who could stay mad at her guy?
2007-03-18 22:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i were you I would tell him that that was a stupid thing to do and if you are mad i would tell him that you were mad and tell him not to do it again
2007-03-18 22:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly how you feel.
2007-03-18 22:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by phantom stranger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow yu are very secure or stupid, no offense , that just seems wrong.
2007-03-18 22:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should be upset not mad. yet.
why did he invite her and not you???????
2007-03-18 22:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by bii. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋