How can I forget about my ex???

Question

it has been like 5 months since we broke up and I just cant get over it

Answer 1

It's been over 2 years for me and I've been in another relationship that lasted longer. I still don't know what I saw in him and he has the worst qualities but I loved him. I'm not as hurt as I was but I keep busy, working, writing, anything that doesn't require you to think about him. Keep busy, go out and have fun and meet new people, not necessarily males, females are great when you come out of relationships. Just think, you can do what you want now and you don't have the responsibilities of another person.

Make him regret the break up and be the best you can be. Just remember if he ever asks for you back, say he had his chance. If he is willing to do anything for you to get you back, then maybe give him another chance.

But I wouldn't. The past is the past. How you broke up the first time will only be repeated.

Good Luck Darlin'.

Answer 2

Well it just plain hurts, especially if you still have feelings for this person. I'm going through a similar experience and I'm hurting but you will be ok. My question to you is maybe the reason why you broke up. Has there been some type of unfinished business between you, some words that were not said. Look honey, if you still love this person, its better to just come out and say it. Give him a call, tell him that you just cant get over your feelings, and you want to know if he maybe feels the same and you guys can try it again you have nothing to lose. If he tells you there is no chance then it wont hurt anymore that what it hurts now. But what if he decides to give it another try. Its worth a try, if he does not then go out, pick up a hobby, keep busy and just treasure the good times, but also try and think of the bad times you both had together. Thinking of the problems and negative things that happened between can help you sometimes forget about that person. God Bless, and keep your head up...

Answer 3

Wow, good question - but the answer is very much in depth - It's a very hard thing 2 do - you can't just forget about that person and date someone else or just move on, as they say - time is the only thing that will ever heal that hurt - ya know?

For real - unless you meet someone that is super sincere, funny, charming, and totally devoted to you - I've dealt with this problem b4, once - and I'm finally over it - I quit talking to her and built up a wall of hate and realization - it's not real hate, just a put on that helps deal with emotions that are hard 2 overcome or control - But anyways, by doing that and meeting this really awesome girl that's completely honest, loving, true, devoted, - all the good things anyone would ever hope for - so yeah - besides all that, try and do something special for yourself - treat yourself good and be confident that your ex is sufferring the loss ;-)

Answer 4

Depending on the time you past together, It will be harder,

1- Think on His/ Her worst Characteristic
2.- Think on how much life you lost with that person ( Freedom, and other kind of problems you had together
3.- Think that you are now single and all you need is self- confidence

That´s all I can tell, you and sorry for my English I use to say this kinda things in spanish

Answer 5

You need to find someone else that is just as good or better that treats you good, but its hard. I was dating a girl and i still think about her from time to time, but the bad part is we really didn't have much in common. I never really had a whole lot of fun with her, but i cared about her so much b/c i loved who she was. I would get shy and nervous around her b/c she was that girl for me. That perfect person, but eventually you meet someone just as good and you move on. Just try not to think about them and use the time and the break-up as motivation to be someone better and make something of yourself.

Answer 6

you wont. no matter how much you want to. you can never jus forget about ya ex. especially if it was real love....that person is always gonna be with you....maybe not as strong as b4 when ya'll were actually goin out. but like i said. if it was real love. that person is apart of you...u know. and ya'll paths might meet again and who knows. ya'll might be together again. as friends, or maybe more...you know...but since you jus broke up not to long ago....its gonna be a while b4 you actually can move on...and get back into dating or whateva you decide

Answer 7

revenge .... join the dark side of the force ....

well, actually find a hobby ... a new hobby.
and watch movies always ... but not romantic movies ...
try to watch superheroes movies where in heroic tales .. love has to be put behind ...........

sometimes our destiny has to come later .. (after we have done some major things to the world ....)

great powers come with great responsibilities ...

forget the one you lost for many more may join you later.
a lost may open i wider road in your life .

Answer 8

Quit asking questions about him, cuz that makes you think of him, or saying "i hate him" means your still thinking about him... find something to do that takes a lot of you attention away, or find someone else to spend time with... BUT NO and I mean NO comparasions.

Answer 9

Vacation.

Answer 10

best way but not exactly PC is to get on with someone else not date you aren't ready really but just have a good time with someone in or out of bed if all you do is sit at home all you will do is dream or beleive how good it was with him/her no matter how bad it was with him/her