it is probably the main reason women get raped, right? tell me if i'm wrong.
2007-03-18 15:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by rt1290 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do they like power so much?
2007-03-18 15:25:05 · update #1
I don't think all guys like to be controlling, i know some really passive ones, who like there girls to be in control....
Also not all guys who like to be in control are rapist, there are a few sick individuals....
2007-03-18 17:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good questions, both of them. I've never known either a rapist or a rape victim, so maybe I don't know what I'm talking about. But I think most rapes are about anger and hurt more than control. And some rapes are probably about plain raw horniness more than anything.
The urge for control is there though, you're right -- making someone do what you want, no matter anything. But that perception, creating a control situation, is sort of downstream of more basic motives.
2007-03-19 01:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by will_o_the_west 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends , with me and my fiancee , shes in control because if she wasnt I wouldnt do anything .
As for rape , rape is about control yes and there are women who rape men so I guess its both ways .
2007-03-19 06:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to think we are in control, but we rarely are.
Those who truly have positions of authority, often have "submission" fantasies (BDSM)
I don't know about rape- I keep a firm grip on myself (ahem).
2007-03-18 22:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont, I love it when a woman take control, that is sexy!
2007-03-19 12:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by littlekato2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋