I am 12 years old, 24 around the waist, and 85 pounds, and 5'1. My friends are always telling me im anerexic they dont know it scares me sometimes. My mom has threatened for me to live with her if i dont start eating properly. i have tryed sticking my finger down my throught twice but i gave up when it didn't work. I often catch my self thinking i should loose weight. My friends literally yell at me when i tell them i should loose some weight. Do i have a problem? :S
2007-03-18 15:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by Someone : ] ♥ 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
You are very lucky to have friends who look out for you. A support system is a very important thing for one's health.
That said, there IS such a thing as too much emphasis on the weight thing. Considering that obesity is rising in our country at an alarming rate, I wouldn't be surprised if your mom and friends are comparing you to a chubbier model than when I was a child. So, I think it's fine that you're skinny. In fact it's much healthier, as long as you're getting the nourishment and exercise you need.
Most teenagers tend to eat badly and somehow manage to make it to adulthood. I was a skinny 12 year old and have grown into a middle-aged woman of normal weight who struggles to keep it that way with diet and exercise.
According to this weight calculator, http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/growthcharts2/l/bl_ibw_calc.htm , you are very much at a normal weight.
However, I'm concerned about several things you said.
1. that your mom is worried enough to threaten you.
2. that you think you need to lose weight.
3. that you have tried to vomit by sticking your finger down your throat.
Try not to let others push you into changing your eating habits. You may be at risk for developing an eating disorder and what other people say to you can have a profound effect.
Simple diet advice: Try to eat some meat, fish or eggs at every meal. And some fresh vegetables and fruits. Avoid sugar and fast food as much as possible. Take a multivitamin. Get some sunshine every day. Exercise moderately. Otherwise, don't worry about what you eat so much at this point in your life.
If you find yourself dieting, trying to vomit or exercising excessively, seek help from someone you trust.
Good luck and feel free to email me.
2007-03-18 16:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your weight is perfectly fine. Your normal weight range for you height and age is between 79lb. and 115lb. So you are in good health. Don't stress what you're friends tell you, but don't starve yourself. Eat in moderation, not too much and not too little. You may want to find someone to talk to about your issue with weight. It doesn't have to be a friend or family member, but someone you know you can talk to and will keep things confidential.
2007-03-18 22:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by no clue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do have a problem. I think that your mom is threatening you just to make you eat, which you really need to. If your friends have to yell at you to eat, i think that means that they really care about you and that they dont want anything to happen to you. I dont even know you and i really think that you should eat before something happens to you. Please go see a doctor about what you can do to help your problem.
2007-03-18 22:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do have a problem but i dont think it lies with you. I think you are accidentally getting the wrong message from your mom...when she says that you need to start eating properly she probably means healthier,not less. instead of the chips and poptarts (yes we all love them) try for fruits and veggies or a bagel if its breakfast. at your age you shouldnt concern yourself with your weight...your beautiful and you should enjoy life and everything in it....good luck!!!!!
a and btw...talk with ur parents about how you feel about this whole weight thing.....trust me they will try to help you!
2007-03-18 22:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by kbeauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are like me. I am underweight [12 years old and 75 lbs ] but i think i am wayyyyy too skinny i keep eating and eating because everyone thinks im anorexic. please dont think that because its ruining your life at an early age. i am only like this cuz of my genes but you are defintely REALLY SKINNY
2007-03-19 21:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ari ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a problem. You are underweight and obsessed about it. You need to ask to see a doctor to get help for this before you get sick or die.
2007-03-18 22:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this. :/ You know it's not right to stick your finger down your throat and be sooo preoccupied with weight.
Talk to your mom and let her help you.
2007-03-18 22:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG.
You are SO UNDERWEIGHT. You need to gain weight. About 15 lbs.
Yes, you have a problem. Serious problem. Girls die from starving themselves all the time. And you are starving.
2007-03-18 22:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are underweight.i would see a doctor or start eating more,(not unhealthy foods)but you need to eat more and dont stick your finger down your throat please.
2007-03-18 22:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by jmanmexico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be so worried about that at your age, go see a doctor asap!! they will only help you i promise
2007-03-18 22:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by MariPari 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋