So I posted yesterday about how my bf has been ignoring me lately and treating me bad. Well I had a bad night last night, tried talking to him online and he didn't respond at all. I cried all night but decided to try and not talk to him today to give him some space. So he came online again and put on his away message to avoid me, I know this because he was on for awhile and he never went idle so he was there, then he left. then he came back two times for like 5 minutes, ignoring me both times. He also hasn't called me or texted me all day. I'm worried, do you think he is done with me? It hurts so bad to not talk to him, and I want to call him or something so bad but i don't know what to do....he has never ignored me this long, im worried and feel worthless, like i'm not even worth an hello.
2007-03-18 14:54:21 · 12 answers · asked by dwmf05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way....nothing was going on bad in the relationship, he just started this ignoring me for no reason why one, thats why it hurts so much!
2007-03-18 15:07:10 · update #1
You are definitely getting the cold shoulder. The problem here seems to be that neither one of you can even f*rt, without the other one knowing it. I think that you need to focus on something else, besides him. Go bungee jumping or something. Go to a Movie. Show him that you can live with out him
2007-03-18 15:03:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should sit down with him at school or whatever and ask him whats wrong or why he's mad at you. My bf does that to me sometimes and when she does I just go hang out with another group. eventually after awhile she comes to me and asks me if I want to eat with her. So I sit with her and I just continue on in life. Although if he doesn't even say hello then tell him that if he doesn't show any respect towrds you you'll just move on and forget about him. If so find a new bf and don't be ashamed because you deserve so much more then being treated like garbage. Good luck its tough. To let you know your not alone once I was on the phone with my bf and she said wait a second so I waited. Then I heard her talking and litening to music and junk about 15 min later I realised she had totally forgoten about me! her BESTFRIEND I cried for such a long time then called her back and told her what she did. She said sorry but I know she didn't mean it.
2007-03-26 13:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never have to look to someone else to make you feel good about your self. Go ahead and let him have his space. He will come around & when he does maybe by then you will have realized that you do not need him to make you feel like you are worth something. Worth comes from within. It is a personal thing. You have to love yourself befroe you can love someone else too. Please don't take this the wrong way. So I will tell you what I told my best friend....pick yourself up dust yourself off....and go out and do something nice for you. And hey keep your head up.....Good Luck!
2007-03-26 12:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by cheyenne29646 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real jerk!!!!! Let him be, Sweetie. Stop trying to get his attention. You will find someone much better than him who will treat you alot better than what he is. Face it........he don't want to be with you anymore. Sorry to tell you like that and I know it hurts like h***, but love does hurt. The right person will come along and he will make you forget all about that creep.....In the meantime get some darts and through them at his pic or get a punching bag and hit it alot of times. You will feel alot better afterwards....It worked for me until I met my husband!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-03-26 12:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sxy_Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you know what this tells me he is controlling you , he knows that this hurting you , he knows you would forgive him for it , he knows that you are waiting for him to call or chat back with u on the computer, so iam going to ask you this , are you going to want to live like this forever with him??? hes a controlling man , and youneed to move on with youre life , before you get exactly what you dont want after you are with him in another 5yrs', hes def playing head games with you and while hes doing this you are losing more and more of youre self worth and self respect , so save youre self trouble now and go get youre self a life before he takes everything out of you alot of people on here is giving you good advise so listen to someone
2007-03-26 04:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why are you lost your self confidence this much?!!!
I think every relationship has 2 polar and you are not alone. you must survey on your behaiviour and find your weekness in relationship. if you dont find anything wrong in yourself maybe he got bored or find someone else or...
dear dont be worry this much. every event is just a new experience. be stong and make a better choice in your life.
I hope the best for you.
good luck
2007-03-18 15:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hes a jerk if for no good reason he just starts treating you bad... then you need to move on, he don't deserve your time.. you shouldn't feel bad at all, unless you did something...wait a little longer then try to talk to him, maybe by then he'll be over it, if not move on...
2007-03-18 15:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him determine your worth... Your value is immeasurable. A human is one of God's greatest creations, so don't talk yourself down! Move on, he sounds like a jerk!
2007-03-25 12:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by TheExpert 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop feeling worthless. You need to prevent anyone else from determing your self worth. You need to stop monitoring his online time. You need to divert your mind to something else. And you need to promise not to allow yourself to become emotionally dependent on anyone else.
2007-03-26 11:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by jackbutler5555 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's gunna b like that, dump him first. or you'll just get hurt even worse if he dumps you.
that's if... you are willing to do that.. or are you still loyal to ur bf who may be cheatin on you...
think about it
2007-03-26 13:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Vivi L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋