ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and we both know that we want to be together, but i dont know like really kow if i want to be with him............ what iam saying i do, i love him with all my heart........ but now that we broke up i dont know if i can tell him the way i feel because whaen he see me now he dont look at me or say anything........... should i call him or talk to him face to face.,,,,,,,,,,,,,, how sholud i tell him.... also when i tell him things he say that he know what iam saying, but he go back and do the same thing over....... and when he say that he is sorry and tell me how he feel about me......... i see that he mean it............ but he still go and do it....................
2007-03-18 14:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because you still have feeling for someone doesn't mean you belong together and you yourself has said that maybe not in those words but never the less the meaning is the same.When a guy tells you ( I no what you are saying )he hears you and understands what you are saying but he sure in hell does not agree with you and that is why he keeps doing the same thing over and over.When you make a fool out of a guy he is not going to give you a second chance to do it again. Time for you to find someone else sorry!
2007-03-18 15:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the classic case of getting away with it. He know that you will forgive him, he knows what to say to you. He tells you what you want to hear and presto things are good again. So what is going to happen?
Did you know that if you commit a crime, you can say anything you want, to the judge. Sure go ahead and tell him what he wants to hear..... It will not matter you will go to jail. "Punished"
This is what you need to do to him, teach him a lesson. Show him that it is the last time that he violates your rules. You are tired of being disrespected and it will not happen again. The problem is that you will feel bad and give him a chance. Let's see in baseball how many chances does one get to hit the ball?. You guessed it 3. Three strikes you are out.
If you start to live your life this way, by the third time someone does something to you, they are out. No more, see you, sayunara, good bye, bonfille adios, hasta la vista... get it?..
You will also develop a reputation and guys will know, "If you wanaget with her" better not mess up!! :) Hope this helps.. Will.
2007-03-18 22:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Will M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Consider it a lesson learned, even if it was a painful lesson and move on. It sounds like he finds it easy to give you a meaningless apology and then forget his promise and do exactly what he promised he wouldn't do, again and again. How many times do you need the same lesson to learn from the lesson? Don't let someone walk all over you, do stupid things, say he's sorry and do it again.
You are so much better than that. Don't apologize to him. Don't make up with him. Find someone who will treat you right.
2007-03-18 21:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL SUMMON UP ALL OF UR COURAGE AND ASK HIM.. TELL HIM HOW U FEEEL or if he doent look at u get it over i mean its just over... yah dont worry u will find someone new
2007-03-18 21:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called puppy love work more on being a kid go outside & play have a good time
2007-03-18 21:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in him? Does he believe in you ? figure that out 1st!
2007-03-18 21:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it sounds lame but, listen to your heart!
2007-03-18 21:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he doesn't deserve you:)
2007-03-18 21:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by sweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not going to work.... it already isnt, so let it go.....!!!
2007-03-18 21:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by hey lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋