Ok I was with this girl for about two years and it ended on a bad note. I couldn't get over her at all and it almost killed me cause I loved her so much. Than she calls me to say she's sorry for what she did to me after three years. I have been with other girls and when she called I couldn't eat, sleep or anything! and I hate this feeling but I still think about her. Why did she call after three years? I know she broke with her boyfriend but she doens't want to get back together? yet she tells me that I was a great man for her and she did me wrong and now tells me that she only wish me the best and I have great heart. I don't understand? I don't know what to make of this?
2007-03-18 14:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Cj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lots of people get to a place in their lives where they feel the need to make amends for things they've done in their past. I know my ex bf had to when he joined a 12 step group. He was to make amends to all the people he had hurt while he was drinking and using, EXCEPT when to do so would harm that person. Idk if your ex is following a spiritual path these days, but that may factor into it...
Good luck to you. :-)
2007-03-18 14:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by OneRedCent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont read in to it much i deal with my ex and im marry now but she calls to see how things are going she calls about every 3 mouths me and her were together for about 2 half years point being just be happy that she is ok but you can't date her any more cuz it dont work you two have change alot in 3 + years know what i mean think about it you'll get it .
2007-03-26 04:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She contacted you because of the fact she desires the two considered one of you have been at the same time lower back. in case you think of you are able to desire to re-ignite your courting then she sounds prepared. If the breakup motives are nonetheless present then you certainly ought to forget approximately concerning the on a daily basis calls and talk together with her approximately no longer calling you on a daily basis on the grounds which you're "merely acquaintances" now. tell her you do no longer sense the desire to maintain that for the duration of touch together with her. she would be in a position to be harm besides the fact that if it rather is greater effective to be trustworthy.
2016-10-19 01:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is realizing she let a good person go. Dont feed too much into it. Sometimes when ppl have other things in their lives that aren't going right, they tend to call people they have hurt to apoligize and ask for forgiveness, hoping that will improve the things they are going through. I would just go on about my everyday business and not worry so much about it. good luck.
2007-03-18 14:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she calls you after 3 years. thats a lil strange there. ok, if she called you after you spilt and you kept in contact then it wouldnt be so weird.
well, just ask her why she has rang you up and tell her that she has brought up feelings about her that you had forgot a long time ago. maybe she could be looking for comfort after her spilt and she knows that you can give her the comfort that she needs right now.
2007-03-26 08:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just realized that she did something wrong and wants to apologize to you. she probably believes in Karma nobody is worth almost killing yourself. Just move on and have fun with the other girls.life is too short to bring back old memories if it was meant to be you would be with her but it isn't.
2007-03-18 14:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by cstarlight1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she learnt that the grass isnt greener on the otherside,,,,but becareful of giving your heart ,,,she did hurt it once but there again dont build a brick wall and push her away,,,she be you...after 3yrs you must of been still in her thoughts...dont play games though either of you talk ask her before you get into deep..
2007-03-26 14:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by michellefluff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who knows she might wwnat u back or want a freindship or just to say sorry. wait and see if anything else happens b4 u jump to any kind of conlucsion.
2007-03-18 15:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses you. She's been thinking about you too. She only wants you to be happy.
OR she's looking for a new boyfriend.
2007-03-18 14:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she wants closure for both you and her. This call allows you both to move on and not have it end on such a "bad note"
2007-03-18 14:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋