i'm attractive and 17, but i've only been on 2 dates my entire teenage life...sad i know! when should i start to worry something is wrong
2007-03-18 14:42:29 · 42 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, there's people much, much older than you that have NEVER been on dates. Besides, at your age all that dating and relationship stuff is fake and superficial. When you hit college age & get yourself more out there it's much different. So don't stress about high school.
2007-03-18 14:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dusk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just starting to live. You are so young that your priority should be your education in order to have a better future than your parents. You can have friends while you concentrate on your studies but I think a serious relationship will grow and happen as you interact with others. Friendship is a great way of socialization. Look around yourself all the girls at your age with a baby; Do you want to be one of them?
What about those others that have had abortions not knowing the side effects and complications that they might have or had; do you know any? What about those that get marry at a young age? Is this what you want. It takes character to do the right things. I think your parents are very proud of you. Stay out of trouble, study hard and love will come on its own without even looking for it. It just happens while your are busy accomplishing your goals and dreams.
When I was your age I had a lot of friends and only two dates. Trust me you are not missing anything. It is the quality of relationships and not the quantity. Take care and continue to make the right choices. You will only benefit from those choices.
2007-03-18 14:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's not sad that you've only been on two dates. I'm 17 and only been on 1 and that bast**d already had a girlfriend! It just shows you have a little more self-respect than others. But overall, you shouldn't worry about anything right now. Live the he** out of today cause tomorrow's not promised, girl!
2007-03-18 14:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ms* Shae* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER worry about that! Take as much time as you need!!! I commend young girls like yourself, that don't rush into things, such as dating, sex and relationships etc.... It's so refreshing and shows you're responsible and mature enough to wait until you are older and wiser and can handle the emotional impact, that comes along with dating. I really wish more teenage girls were like you. I have a 16 year old girl also, much like yourself and I can't tell you how much DRAMA her friends go through with these young boys. It's really sad! Don't worry. Stay focused on school, college. You'll have plenty of time for boys later. Good for you!
2007-03-18 14:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Engage Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry yet. I was 19 when I finally had my first boyfriend. I had a couple more after that, and then got married at 25. If it makes you feel any better, I think I am still reaching my peak of attractiveness where all those popular people in high school, the really hot ones, they peaked in high school and it was all down hill after that. So, don't worry, your time will come. College was the start of it for me!
2007-03-18 14:47:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry yet. Keep improving yourself. Many of the guys in high school turn out to be duds later.
When you go to college, maybe you could consider using contact lenses. The saying "Guys do not make passes at girls who wear glasses" while not absolutely true, has some basis in reality.
Do some of the social things like clubs and meetings.
You will meet a cool guy, no doubt.
2007-03-18 14:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong. Some people don't even begin dating until they are 16! You have your whole entire dating life ahead of you! It seems like tomorrow will never come, but it will. Enjoy the single life and be choosy!
2007-03-18 14:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by spolie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be worrying about if anything is wrong. All you should worry about as your age right now is education and your future. Lame, i know. But think about it, you can get dates later on in life after you succeed, you could start thinking about those stuff.
2007-03-18 14:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by vietxpridex92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dates are overrated. YOU have nothing to worry about. You must be confident and friendly. Just enjoy friendship and fun and the serious part will happen eventually when the right person and the right moment comes. You are totally normal.
2007-03-18 14:47:26 · answer #9 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start worry when you're a 65 year old with 8 cats and you go around saying things like "Well that was just funnier than the Dickens! Oh, wow....that was the bee's neez."
WTF is the Dickens anyways?
2007-03-18 14:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by OwNaGeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋