Is it ladylike to take the train alone late at night?

Question

Im meeting this guy next week and we live 2 hrs away from eachother, so we plan on meeting eachother somewhere.We plan on hanging out for the whole day.Neither of us have cars so we have to take public transportation.When is the latest I should head home as a lady in her early 20's? Should I call him when i get home or should I let him call me?

Answer 1

Your actual question is different than what you ask in the details.

My answer to your actual question is this:

I wouldn't be concerned so much with the fact of whether its lady like or not. Rather I'd be more concerned about it being safe. If you are meeting this guy who lives two hours away, and I'm getting the impression that you don't now him very well, since you referred to him as "this guy", then you should be sure that someone knows exactly where you are going and the name of the guy you are meeting. Take your cell phone and make sure its charged and have a friend or family member call you several times during your trip to check in on you and use your head. There are all sorts of crazies out there. Stick to very public places (ie cafes, stores, restaurants) and I wouldn't stay out too late, especially if you have to ride the train back home alone again. If your spending the whole day, then I would head back right before it gets dark.

Please be careful!

Answer 2

i wouldnt stay out so late its dangerous for u to ride the train home for sure and if he's a real gentleman he'll call to make sure u get hom safely

Answer 3

I don't about ladylike, but I don't know that it's safe. You may want to start for home before it gets too dark. GOD bless you!

Answer 4

If your man is sweet enough, he would take the train with you until you get home.
But no, it's not safe, especially if you're very attractive.