what is she doing?

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for those of you that dont know my story ill post it below and u can catch up. . but anyways . . . she last contacted my in mid december until this week she sends me an email that just says .. . . "just wondering if you are done hating me yet?!?!lol ". . . . . why do u think she is continuing to try to contact me when she is still with the guy she left me for and i have no responded to her since june?

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6 minutes ago
ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

Answer 1

Maybe this girl has realized what a big idiot she was for leaving you and wants to regain your feelings. But with the hating part... that's what most of us girls do when we get dumped or if we dumped them. We tend to think that you hate us for what we did. She could also want to hang out and regain your trust again. But not responding to her is an okay thing to do. You could also not be responding because you are still hurt from her. Just try,the next time she calls or whatever, to ask what she wants or if you don't like her calling/texting/emailing...etc... then explain to her that you have moved on and don't feel like being part of her life anymore and say that she needs to stops unless she has a good excuse for contacting you.

Answer 2

I think she probably regrets leaving you. It's a possibility that she wants to get back together with you and is just staying with that guy until she finds out for sure where you stand. Why don't you try telling her your position on the situation whatever it may be.

Answer 3

Sounds to me like she misses you more than she is willing to admit but she needs to get over it because she dumped you! Don't let her string you along like that. Tell her if she wants you back to tell you right now! If not, stop playing games with you and tell her you want to break all ties with her. Say "No offense but I am trying to move on with my life and I hope you can do the same for both our sakes" and wish her good luck in her future relationships!

Answer 4

She might be regretting her decision to leave your relationship. She may also be trying to keep you interested b/c things fell through with the other guy or they aren't going well. No telling really, but with actions there are motives.

Answer 5

She might not love u anymore but she still wants to be friends with u because a part of her still cares about u

Answer 6

She's trying to get a reaction out of you. She knows how you feel and she's trying to make you feel worse. Change your phone number and don't respond to her. She sounds like a real B****.

Answer 7

maybe she realized that she made a mistake leaving you and wants to get back together but dont know how to tell you

Answer 8

She's playing a game. Continue to ignore her.

Answer 9

Maybe he is genuinely sorry for the hurt that she caused you or otherwise she maybe wants you back.

Answer 10

She's f---ing with you. She doesn't want you but she doesn't want you to forget about her either. Some girls are really mean...it's a power trip.