ok so i am with this guy that i really like alot and and i have been with him over a month i am really scared to open up to him and you know let him in because i have been hurt a hell of alot and my last bf i thought he was the one but he went a bit crazy and then dumped me... my ex told me he loved me and i thought i loved him but i am confused is love real and should i open up to this guy i am with now????... he seems to be as crazy about me as i am about him
2007-03-18 14:32:43 · 10 answers · asked by dani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hope love is real tell me how it turns out really, all guys arent like that, but they are alot harder to talk to than girls
2007-03-18 14:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by enochsangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a state of mind. By this I mean that you can switch or turn on the love feeling or turn it off. It's cute and you get all thees cool feelings running through you body, but it is dangerous. You have discovered that today you may feel like you can't live without a certain person, All of a sudden they do something bad to you, and tomorrow you will despise them for ever. So it was turned on and NOW off. Please understand that must guys just want one thing, once they get it they want the next one. Understand if you may that life is a process that you can't change, what is going to happen is going to happen no matter what you do. The decisions you make just cruise life for a while.
My 2 cents. Live life being the best that you can. treat others good and with love. Enjoy your life to the fullest every day. Make those around you feel comfortable and loved. The person that is going to give you all of this will come to you. Since you are used to being good, honest and caring you will enjoy that he will also be like such to you.
If things go sour in your life, mourn a bit and then continue, to be god and start all over. Smile GOD loves you/.. Hope this helps. Will.
2007-03-18 14:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Will M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really scared about trusting people. If you really are crazy about this guy then you should let him in and get to know the real you. You can't go through your entire life being scared. You must take chances. I know from experience that a heart can hurt a lot but if some one else is in there it makes you feel a lot better. Hope this helps.
2007-03-18 14:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS REAL IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND MAKE IT REAL. If you both aren't on the same page, and your not working together in the relationship, then why are you in it. I feel you should open up and tell him how you feel, cause if you don't have good communication, alot of confusion and assumptions can be made, which can eventually lead into trouble. I would open up and make sure he's with you on that.
2007-03-18 14:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by sin_lover85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is real, but what is it?
That is the answer you are looking for.
Love has emotion, but it is not only an emotion.
Love has desire, but desire is not the core of love.
True love keeps on going even when feelings and desire are at their low points.
True love cares more about the other than about the self.
Desire and emotion are not enough to call it love.
2007-03-18 14:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by greengo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush anything... if you want a deep relationship then time isn't a factor... one month is a short time... it took my girlfriend and I two years to start to really get to know each other intimately.
2007-03-18 14:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by yesterdaylair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only you know deep down how ur feeling and if hes the special guy you've been looking for.but i'm sure what ever you decide it'll work out good luck hun listen to your heart
2007-03-18 14:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. You can't judge everybody by one person.
2007-03-18 14:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea luv is soooooo real get with him and LOVE him
2007-03-18 14:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by me83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i know ,Ben there in again i still don't know
2007-03-18 14:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by melanie12354@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋