My g/f of 3 weeks just ended it....It was only 3 weeks but during that time...it was more than amazing. I find it strange because the day and weeks before she kept telling me how happy she was being with me and she was looking forward to something long term. The out of no where she was "confused" and "needed time to think because of stuff going on in her life." I believe her because she is always brutally honest, however I'm gunna hang back for a bit to see what happens because she still thinks im a great guy for her...you think ill get another chance? I hope i do because i want to see where the relationship would take us. Any advice or anything at all related to this topic would be appreciated! Thanks everyone!
2007-03-18 14:31:52 · 28 answers · asked by trp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you may have another chance! And it sounds like you're a great guy. I think waiting is the best idea. Worst comes to worst she was confused because she likes someone better. And if that' the case, keep right on moving on. You seem like a wonderful guy--you'll find someone eventually.
2007-03-18 14:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep. My advice it that it is good that you did not invest more time and energy than you did. You do not have to go back when it sours later and say"I remember when she acted funny about the space of three weeks when every thing seemed fine". Take a chill pill and let it go. Just because she is brutally honest and now you need to be honest and love yourself dude. There are too many women out there who are stable-so why deal with her. I am being brutally honest so if that turns you on then listen and turn her off, cut her loose, unplug her from your system, put her on a fast boat in the other direction, don't answer the phone-catch my drift?
Love yourself man. She got a right not to love you and you go a right to accept someone who loves you. Check out the poem:
Now That’s Love
I know what love is like:
Truly loving someone is giving them the freedom to love you or not
Truly loving yourself is choosing to be someone who uses that freedom to love you
Yea, now that’s love
June 19, 2006 by Arene
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2007-03-18 14:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 05:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by marcinko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try not to be too sad, believe me, I KNOW it's hard sometimes, but wait it out. If it's that time of the month for her or something, she could come right back to you crying saying it was a big mistake and she never knew how miserable she was without you. It all could pass sooner than you think with just a day or two, but if not, don't be looking for a rebound girl right away. Make sure you are totally over her before you start looking for someone else, and whatever you do, DON'T go out with someone just to get back at her (i.e. someone she hates, her best friend...ect.) How old are you?
2007-03-18 14:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by djevans1234@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is kinda wierd cuz y did she just instantly leave but then tell u that u r the right guy for her. I think something more is underneath the skin,,there has got to be something going on...she's brutally honest right?? then ask her straight up y she just left like that but first wait a little bit..let her have time to relax
U sound like u really really like this girl but maybe u smothered her to much and she just needs to breath (just a thought)
Good Luck
2007-03-18 14:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will have another chance because 3 weeks is just a short time and if she said she was 'confused' and 'that stuff was happening in her life', well I am sure that once those things disappear and things clear up she will be back in no time.
2007-03-18 14:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Blueberry. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her space and be cool. Call her once and tell her that you understand and you will be their for here as a friend or a boyfriend. If she needs someone to talk to tell her that she can call you and just leave it alone just give her space and don't go after her. Also don't sit home thinking about her all day long waiting for her to call life goes on just don't think about it and everything will be good trust me (personally experienced this) Good luck
2007-03-18 14:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be that she has commitment issues. Hang in there for a bit and see if she doesn't come around. For some people, falling in love is a scary thing so they try to run from it. It's not uncommon at all.
2007-03-18 14:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's confused then give her time and let her think it over. It sounds like she really is just wondering what she wants, she's trying to do what's best for both of you in the least hurtful way. If you give her this time to think you might get ber back.
2007-03-18 14:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you scared the hell out of her, she started to fall in love with you and got scared.. that is one option I get out of this, or she found someone new... Just hang back like you stated and wait, dont bother her just a you know call every few days or text to see how she is doing.. Or a fast hello in passing.. I wish you luck and remember to take it slow
2007-03-18 14:35:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋