My boyfriend of 2 years has been pressuring me alot lately to do things i don't want to do (in the bedroom and out). Our relationship has always been a little rocky, and we often fight. A few days ago i realised i wasn't so sure if i loved him anymore. I don't feel the spark like i used to, but now i'm starting to wonder if there was any spark ever there from the start. The thing is i'm afraid of breaking his heart, and i'm not even sure if breaking up is the right thing. I just don't know what to do anymore. Please help me out!
2007-03-18 14:31:08 · 6 answers · asked by starstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off dont give in to the pressure.
Second if you dont love him then your taking time from him that he could be using to find someone who does care. So break it off now. Your not doing him any favors by pretending you love him.
Its time to move on.
2007-03-18 14:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you mention that your relationship has been rocky and often fighting with each other. That tells me that your relationship hasn't been a positive factor in your life. As far as your boyfriend wanting you to do things that you don't want to do, you should listen to your heart and feelings. You shouldn't be pressured to please him or be influence by him in any way. It is up to you if you want to show your love to him, but if you feel like that is totally wrong then you should listen to your inner feelings. As far as sparks are concern, sometimes being with the wrong person can give you negative feelings or there is no more chemistry between the both of you. I suggest that you reflect on your feelings and decide what makes you happy in your relationship. Sometimes letting a person go is better than being miserable in the relationship. Remember that sometimes letting a person go may break their heart but if you don't get along with the person in the relationship there will be more cracks in their heart as time goes by with each negative emotions.
2007-03-18 21:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by ddominic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to end it. The fact that he is pressuring you to do anything shows that he does not, and probably never did, respect you as a partner in the relationship or as a person. If you are honest with yourself, you know that there is no reason to remain and if you hang on, it will only end up hurting the both of you even more. Just break it off clean and give the both of you time to heal and move on.
2007-03-18 21:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! Break up and move on. This relationship is over in so many ways. Just be strong and there is more guys out there.
2007-03-18 21:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by RoxanneZG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about breaking his heart. Ain't gonna happen.
It would be best for both of you if you decided to move on. If you said no to his requests, he shouldn't be pressuring you still.
2007-03-18 21:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he wouldn't pressure you to do anything that you don't feel totally comfortable with. You will find someone who will respect you and your wishes.
2007-03-18 21:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dusie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋