How do you break a bad routine?

Question

I keep on tryin gto change my life. I have tons of ideas, I want to write, I want to network socially, basically there are a million and one ambitions that I have but I end up with nothing. Part of the reason is crippling depression but sometimes I think I just have plain rotten cursed luck and I am damned to stay this way.

How do I just shatter this routine and negative thinking and start accomplishing all the things that I know I can.

Answer 1

I completely understand, sometimes it feels like my luck can't get any worse too. First of all, since you want to write, take a couple of courses at college to help you write really ....REALLY well. Next, have a small notebook beside your bed, your chair, couch, etc., because sometimes ideas come around when there is nothing to write with or on.

Now, don't let the depression get the best of you. Perhaps a trip to the doc and get some meds just to help for awhile. Also, surround yourself with positive people, dump the negative thinkers/talkers, who needs that anyway? Now, stop thinking negative things right now and start over, thinking positive ...positive.....positive.....you can do it:)

Answer 2

Try to replace the things you do with the things you want to do. Set up a new routine and include all of the things you want to do and stick to it. Start by writing down all of the things you want to do an how often you want to do them, then make them up into a schedule. You can even include some "spontaneous" time where you do whatever you want. If you want to change the way your life is, I think it helps to have a schedule, because you know what you're supposed to be doing at any given moment. You can't use the excuse of "I'll do that later..."

Answer 3

stop talking and thinking about it and just do it. it's that simple. you have to do it for yourself. you can't just sit around and wait for life to fall in your lap. get up and do it. why are you still reading this when you can be changing your life?
still there? hope this helped.