I have one beautiful child and I want more but my fiance doesn't. What should I do?
2007-03-18 13:49:19 · 8 answers · asked by blj2112 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Hi, i think you should discuss it with him and tell him how you feel. If this is what you want and you are not willing to compromise then i suggest don't get married.
You need to seriously think about what you want but also understand why it does not want a child.
Could it be he wants another child but not at the moment which means you are able to have your child later. Could it be he is worried about finances?
Ask him the questions as to why? Hope you can resolve this especially since he is the love of your life.
Carla
2007-03-18 15:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this going to be a deal breaker?
If it is, you may have to break it off.
If it isn't, sit down and have a serious heart to heart with the boy...find-out WHY he doesn't want any/have more. Does he have 4-5 with as many women? Did he have a traumatic experience (i.e.: an abusive parent) that he fears passing onto a child of his? Does he have a genetic history of soemthing he most definately does not to pass on? In the last case, that is something you wouldn't want either.
2007-03-18 14:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends if he is the only one in the household bringing in money then I wouldn't give him an 18 year debt ya know. If it's 50 50 or you are contributing to the financial situiation. then I would really try to understand what it is that is causing him not to want another baby.
2007-03-18 13:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ninja636 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't marry him until this is a resolved issue. I think if you only have one baby its not fair of him to say no more. Every kid wants a brother or sister. Plus only children are usually over spoiled and unbearable!!
2007-03-18 14:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by got all I need 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he will change his mind in a couple of years
2007-03-18 13:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. consider his feelings. maybe he really doesn't want another kid.
2007-03-18 13:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mon Ray 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex for a while
hide all the condoms he buys and eventually he will give in
2007-03-18 13:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by i love myself 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Go find a good sperm doner :)
2007-03-18 13:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋