he was in love with returned back into his life and now its like i dont even exist and the worst thing is that i really love him and it breaks my heart when i see them two together, by the way shes commited.
2007-03-18 13:41:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but it is pretty clear that he is NOT in love with you and never was.
Forget him and move on.
2007-03-18 13:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I assume by "committed" you mean that she has someone else? In that case, you definitely don't want to be around. Way too much drama. This is just another case of an older guy playing games with a young girl (of course, sometimes it happens the other way round too). It sounds like he just doesn't want to be with you anymore, and there's no way to make someone love you if they don't. Just move on and find someone who's really interested in you and won't waste your time with silly games.
2007-03-18 13:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain honey, I was in the same boat recently. I know it's not a great feeling. I knew going in to this relationship with the older guy, that he had some history with this woman, but I decided to believe in the feeling in my heart, his words, and claiming it was a "done deal" between his ex-wife and him. Not even close to being done! I felt betrayed as well. He told me he loves me, told me how much he loves looking into my beautiful eyes, spending time with me, etc. I really was drawn to him and believed everything he was showing to me and telling me.
All you can do is try to move on and keep busy. Good luck!
2007-03-18 13:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, if he really loved you he wouldn't have just thrown you aside! I suggest some chocolate and milk and maybe a confrontation with him.
If you confront him, you'll find out if he did love you, if he still does, and what this other woman means to him.
If you don't like your the answers you get, I'm truly sorry, but Life WILL go on...and even though I hate this saying, I'm going to say it : " There's more fish in the sea..."
Or something like that...
2007-03-18 13:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Caiti 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he used u till the other woman came back... if he was in love with you he would be with you... u say hes older... seems way older if he left you for the other woman... some men are unforgiveable the way they treat other women that really loved them. seems he was selfish and just a jerk.. sorry he broke ur heart....just learn from ur mistakes and dont do it again... im sure he get whats coming to him one day....
2007-03-18 13:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by gina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you were a distraction until his former lover returned. In other words, you two clicked when he was on the rebound and now that he doesn't need you, you don't matter. Get over it, you can't teach an old dog new tricks!!
2007-03-18 13:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Straight-Up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i just lost the love of my life, maybe for good, not sure, it hurts girl i know but eventually you'll learn to get over it and find a new guy, or just give yourself "me time". go get yourself fixed up and go out with good friends, or just do stuff that makes you happy, in time things will go your way, also buy the movie "the secret" the new documentary sweeping the nation, it holds all your answers trust me
good luck!
2007-03-18 13:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by MariPari 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sweetie. i know what u mean.
my first real "love" was 17. i was...
12 1/2 =| ((((yes i know))))
we went out for a little over a year. =S
then we break up because my parents found out his real age.
then he went out with this one girl and with in the first week he meet her..
he told me..
"ive never loved someone so much in my hole life!!!!"
and this was the guy i lost my viginady to... =[[[
i cryed so much. now he practicly ignores me.
he is 18 now and im turing 14. =S
i still never forget about him. i really miss him. but it broke my heart. and he tells me "dont talk to me ur to inmature" then like..he says "your anyoing" he tells me im not the same he says im to serious and when i try to be funny and goofy even when my heart is spilt in to 2..he still says im anyoing then. =[ ahh. idk what i can tell u. just that there is people out there just like you. and im there for you. and welll... just try to get over him. i know that is hard... but just try, im here for you..<3
[[MisslovelyAngela]]
2007-03-18 13:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by goodbyelovelyxo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate stuff like this, it sucks but if he loved u like u think then he wudnt of droped u as soon as she came back, dont get invovled more then u are. if hes with her now or jumping back n forth ur gona get hurt. i wud get rid of him and move on. it seems like u were just a temp fix! n thats not cool
2007-03-18 13:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.... he is old and he is in love with some one else. Not worth to waste your time. Rather to be by yourself than with some one like him.
2007-03-18 16:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋