I've been hanging around with this girl lately. We aren't going out. It started when I was told that she liked me about 4 weeks ago. I've hung out with her about 3 times on weekends since then, everytime we had a pretty good time. I don't think I've done anything wrong, but all of a sudden this week, idk if its me or what, but she seemed to stop flirting with me so much and hasn't called me to do anything unless i called first. She's been kinda busy this weekend. I understand that she probably doesn't wanna do stuff all the time, but I haven't really been annoying by calling all the time and stuff. Do you think she's losing interest, or just wants a little time off or whatever? It's been bothering me these last 2 days for some reason.
2007-03-18 13:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from a girls perspective, it is always fun and new when you first going out with a guy and you want to be out and having fun with them a lot, as time goes on you want to maybe spread out the time a little bit so it doesnt get boring. Sounds to me like she probably does maybe have a bit going on and maybe just trying to get some space. If i were you maybe leave it a couple days and just call her to see how she is and suggest going out to do something sometime when she isnt busy. Im sure she still likes you, some girls just need time and space.
2007-03-18 13:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by angelfire_272 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"all of a sudden" doesn't happen theres signs ya know. verbal facial expressions chats etc thast gives clues. Perhaps she thinks ur not interested as u dont call a lot. Girls liekea guy to chat with the more the better if they like you.. or.. perhaps she is bored now.. not enough to hold you two as a couple .. :-( why dont you call her up and say if i bug you let me know but im confused.. what is going on in your life?. is it another guy? what can I do for us to be friends?Then she has to answer.. listen well..
2007-03-18 13:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems obvious, but I think the best thing to do is ask her if somethings been bothering her or just talk to her about it. However, I fear she may have lost interest or somebody she knows well made a comment about you and now she's forced to not associate with you anymore. I hope that's not what it is.
2007-03-18 13:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tim A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellll here are my two options behind this.
OPTiON#1:
she could've been using you, she coulda been single, and just wanted to have fun, but maybe she has a boyfriend now and she doesnt wanna flirt anymore because of him...{did that make sense?}
OPTiON#2:
maybe she likes you and she started flirtin with you in hopes that you would make a move and ask her out..if that, she probably got tired of waiting, so she just gave up.
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Do you like this girl?
if you do, i suggest you make a move before its too late..
if you dont, well then just leve her alone, see what happens.
2007-03-18 13:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by soccergrl4103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she not to interested in you in the first place . millions of guys are out there and if you like me you,re not elvis. get a life guy girls want swarm you like your honey, you,re just another dot in this big earth, if you,re not a movie star and have a lot of money ...your nothing to this world , like all the rest of us no bodies...so face it like a man mr o...
2007-03-18 13:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im having the same problem right now, so i need help on that too
2007-03-18 13:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Zo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋