The one I thought was my soul mate, & the love of my life, broke up with me 2 months ago. I still love him madly, but everybody advised me to just move on. (well, and because he's with somebody else already!!)
I've been in love with him for 6 years!! Now, I'm just so lonely and scared. I feel like I'll never find somebody to love again. He was everything I ever dreamt of, and when I look around me, I find no chance for me to love again!!! I even don't know a lot of ppl, & my study keeps me busy.
I'm a bit crazy, right? *cries*
2007-03-18 13:10:12 · 7 answers · asked by Mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not crazy. but it is time to move on. im sure its going to be hard. i can't imagine what i'd do if my love broke up with me. i'd probably be the same way you are
2007-03-18 13:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by ShaLaLaLaLaLaMyOhMy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal a broken heart. These are all normal feelings after a harsh break up. Give it time and hang in there. Get out of the house and try to meet people. Good luck! **hugs**
2007-03-18 20:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Robin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off the best thing for you to face and accept is that he is with someone else. And you need to face that and find a way to move on with your life. You are an important person and just because you lost him does not mean you have to quit and give up. You have to grow up and face it. He is no longer there and you have to move on and be yourself and be better without him. So find a way to move on and be bigger and better without him. He is not worth it. You are.
2007-03-18 20:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by oldestme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mary, you have to understand that he is a jerk. he broke up with you for another girl after 6 years of being together. are you sure you want him to be the one making you feel so lost. go out and get yourself someone new or just go hang out with people and allow guys to be around. it probly wont be long before you find someone better than that jerk that you lost. your friends are right and you do need to move on. there are plenty of good nice guys out there and you just have to find them in the sea of jerk guys that fill up so much of our world.
2007-03-18 20:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by billy_bong_horton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clam down and take a break. You will be able to love again, but don't rush it. You where hurt and you need to let your wounds heal before you get back out there. Don't worry, you have plenty of time to find someone, or someone to find you. Take a break and be free.
2007-03-18 20:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone gets their heart broken, trust me. But if he loved you he wouldn't have found someone else so quickly. I know how it feels to be lonely and believe me theres someone out there for you...give it time.
2007-03-18 20:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by I_love_him 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up, u are young, there is a lot of time to meet "the one"
2007-03-18 20:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋