I asked her out yesterday, and we apparently like each other alot, however we run out of things to talk about relatively fast. I dont know what to do, or if thats good or bad. Also, i'm just not feeling the click with her even though i know shes a great person. I dont want to break up with her but i really dont know what to do. I'm confused i guess. I'm feeling like.. almost heartbreak but nothing wrong has happened. Does anyone have any ideas?
2007-03-18 13:10:02 · 12 answers · asked by John C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave it alone and see what happens. I think if things was made to happen it will. A person can't ignore what they feel too long. Your instincts will tell you when the time is right. Just wait it out and see. Trust me on this one.
2007-03-18 13:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Leona 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two are a little uncomfortable still around each other, there is always a little bit of awkwardness at first. Go to a couple of movies or something (that way you don't have to talk during and after you can talk about the movie). After a while the tension will ease, you guys just have to get into the swing of things.
2007-03-18 20:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by beautyinfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be some tension between you because you both like each other alot. It's awkward sometimes. Here's my advice: go do something interactive, like playing mini golf or bowling, and even bring some friends along. It's easier to relax when you're doing goofy things like that, plus it can be alot of fun. Conversation is much easier when you're relaxed, and laughing at yourself or each other can help break the ice. But if she went out with you in the first place, it means she likes you.
2007-03-18 20:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by josh m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about anything and ALWAYS KEEP EYE CONTACTS and do some good facial expression to match her reply:
talk about what u did today, yesterday or long time ago (have to be interesting though)
talk about what she did yesterday, today or long time ago (get her to know that u kinda considerate)
ask her if she's doin ok.
ask about her parents, ask about how her day is goin so far
ask her where she plans to go for tomorrow
ask her if she meet any of her friends today
if she looks vex, ask her what made her look like that then hug her and comfort her with words like "dont worry about it, we're here now, lets enjoy the date"
if she doesnt want to continue the date, ur out of luck, take her home and then call her the nite and ask if she's feeling better
If she's not vex the first place, then continue ask her questions about anything u wanna know about her that u havnt know yet.
well it's always good to bring something for her b4 the date or after the date. like flowers, chocolate, ring, necklace, bracelet, anything.
well good luck mien....hope u too enjoy ur dates. later
2007-03-18 20:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how it was when my boyfriend and i first went on a date. I thought we just weren't right. It turns out i was wrong, we're still together. Just compliment her, talk about things she likes and things you like. And try to break the silent moments with a joke. Hope things work out.
2007-03-18 20:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Deb-angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out about what she likes to do in a public setting... such as a mall, or take her to a concert, that way when you "run out of things to say" you have some distractions to talk about and at the same time, you are getting to know her. I get nervous around guys so talking about things is hard, but if I can get a guy to talk to me about everything (whether its sports or whatever) I get to learn more about him and at the same time have him learn about me. have fun!!!
2007-03-18 20:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Janille S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like her and she seems to dig you then go for it ask her out and you'll find things to talk about.don't worry about not having nothing to talk about you can take her to the movies and out to dinner then you and her can talk about the movie. but i must also tell you that things can go south real fast if your the only one who's holding the talk up she has to have so type of gab too. just go out and test the waters.
GOOD LUCK....
2007-03-18 20:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding out what her hobbies are and if she likes sports. just don't break up with her i know what it feels like to be used and cheated on by a guy it happened more than five times. but i hope you still love her. you can do anything if you put your mind to it and commit to it.
2007-03-18 20:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come up with something quick or she's gone.Ask her questions about herself!Keep her talking.Practice simple questions before you go out.
2007-03-18 20:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her you don't feel the spark or click, and she probuly doesn't ethier, and you'll both agree to break-up. Or you could just wait, for her to break up with you
2007-03-18 20:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by loverforever150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋