my problem is that i assumed to a girl that i liked her
but im very shy and did it by sms ( it was the first time i admit it to someone)
She was next to me in the classsroom, and i tried to say something to her
Then , in the next day the teacher change the sits, and she went to the sit behind me.
I send her more sms, saying that i dont like her and more stupids things, but in the valentins day i send her a letter saying that i love her.
we were suposed to meet alone in school to talk about this, but she said that she couldnt because she had to resolve one problem of a friend.
Since then we never more talked , and i have been ignoring her, and she ignoring me.
In the other day when u get out of class and there was only me, her and one friend of mine she started to look at me, and i just ignored her, and i just wanted to get out of there.
This is the whole history, but before of this we had a good friendship, i helped her a lot and she talked of all of her problems...
2007-03-18 13:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... and she said she trust me, and told me that she like of one guy( but she dont know how he is, she likes him just by aspect)
I dont want to ignore her for my whole life, if i cant haver her i wanna be friends, but it will be hard because i have to talk to her in private, and she is always with her friends...
So the question is that if i should continue to ignore her or try to talk to her again
2007-03-18 13:02:30 · update #1
ignoring her would only make this situation worse. you two need to talk to each other and sort this situation out. you have to tell her that if she wont make time to talk about this, she'll be losing you as a friend. try not to ignore her all the time and try not to want to leave whenever she is near you. it seems like you two have a really good friendship going on, so dont lose it! good luck!!!
2007-03-18 13:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I hate that word! Don't ever ignore someone, it doesn't do anything but waste time. You ignore someone, the person thinks somethings wrong so they ignore back, nothing gets said or done. It's a mess. I have experienced the agonizing tortures of ignoring someone. Find some way to talk to her. Catch her after class, really quick while she's slone, write her a letter, do anything. Just stop ignoring her.
2007-03-18 13:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when two people like each other and want to share a lot of time together is to not sit close to or next to each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Stay away and as far from each other as possible to see if anything will foster out of it. Try it, it does work.
2007-03-18 13:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is the thing if you are really shy around her she is going to think that you dont want to be around her and that you dont like talking with her and all i know its hard but try to talk to her try bringing up convosations and stuff with her. an if her friends are around dont worry about it make them your friends too. then in class if you get to do work together have fun with it an ask her to be your partner in classwork. get to know her better an all. the thing to friendship is to never be shy around them you have to try to keep confidence no matter how hard it is i know it from exsprience myself so trust me and just try. best of luck
2007-03-18 13:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her either as a friend or girlfriend you do need to talk to her.it will bother you forever if you dont>>>just say hi and ask her if she still wants to be friends or if she would like a relationship..that way you know where you exactly stand with with her . either she is your girlfriend or your friend.. give it a try!
2007-03-18 13:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and have her meet you for coffee or a soda or something and meet outside of the school setting.
2007-03-18 13:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i no what she feels like my boyfriend is constantly ignoring
me and i love him but when he ignores me he flirts with other girls and it makes me feel like a piece of crap and of all people he's my boyfriend well i suffer from insomnia so it's hard for me to go to sleep and because my boyfriend makes me feel like crap i'll cry myself to sleep some nights
so i no how she feels but don't let her go if she decides that she just wants to be friends then just stick with what she says
2007-03-18 13:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by killerqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should deffinately try talking to her again. How can you be her friend if you don't communicate? You won't get anywhere if ya'll dont talk. ok?
2007-03-18 13:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by Deb-angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ignore her. Talk to her like you used to. Don't talk about love unless she talks about it first.
2007-03-18 13:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to her again
2007-03-18 13:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by loverforever150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋