most people who i have asked his question too said they would definately feel guilty if they cheated, however i do not feel guilty at all, the only time when i may start to feel a bit guilty is when i think i might get caught, dont think that is guilt tho think thats just fear of getting dumped. My friend asked me 'do i actually have a heart!?' I would hate it if its was done to me tho! Do most people think it is really wong or if your partner doesnt find out then no harm is done??
2007-03-18 12:33:15 · 18 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't cheat on my husband but it has nothing to do with guilt....I wouldn't cheat because I love him & wouldn't want to hurt him in any way.....he's so lovely to me....
When I say I wouldn't feel guilt, I mean that guilt isn't what would prevent me from doing it......but I'm sure guilt would follow......
2007-03-18 14:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel guilty, then perhaps you might be a "bad person"/womanizer, or maybe it is simply a sign that you don't date the right people. If you really liked a girl and cared about her, then you would at least feel a pang of guilt. The only time that I felt no guilt/remorse for cheating, was when I used to cheat on this one loser ex. But he was a horrible boyfriend and did a lot of bad things to me, plus I didn't even want to be dating him, so that's why I did what I did. I didn't have the guts to dump him, so cheating was my secret passive-aggressive way of "getting revenge." Perhaps you are in the same boat here. If this is so, then you should consider dumping girls earlier on in the relationship; what is the point of prolonging the "relationship," if you're disrespecting her and you obviously desire something else? You should also consider taking time off from steady dating, and perhaps stay single and only engage in no-strings-attached hook-ups. That is what I normally do, since I generally hate relationships.
2007-03-21 01:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I have cheated twice before simply out of sheer revenge..I have felt guilty and STILL feel guilty about it 10 years later. Cheating for whatever reason is wrong no matter how you look at it. It is NOT fair to waste other peoples lives and time with your games. Your partner deserves better than you dear I hate to say. Cheating is wrong..so if you want to play the field then make yourself single and free to do so. If not..eventually you WILL get caught cheating and what comes around goes around remember. You yourself have just said that you wouldnt want someone cheating on you so why are you doing it to someone else? You are selfish and one day when the tables turn on yourself hopefully you will see just how hurtful what you are doing now is.
2007-03-18 16:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I did cheat on someone, which i dont think i would do, I would feel really guilty. I do have a heart, so it hurts me whenever I know I have hurted someone. Wheter they find out or not, i would still feel guilty of cheating because I wouldnt want the same to happen to me. Cheating is wrong, no matter for what reason. I usually feel bad for things I have did thats wrong.
2007-03-18 12:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, well Ive never cheated and never would just not who i am, but i am born from an affair as my dad is married to another woman. and he dosent feel any guilt. i think if you wanna be having sex with more than one person then don't be in a relationship just have casual sex. to be in a relationship and cheat is hurting someone unnecessarily. most people get caught eventually.
2007-03-18 13:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by tj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u cheat then feel no guilt then i belive the relationship is not the one as the say.i have cheated on exs b4 and felt no guilt but now ive met the woman of my dreams i could never cheat on her,i wouldnt want to risk hurtin her or jepordising the relationship.
2007-03-18 12:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by ANDY j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong. Whether you feel guilty about it or not, you shouldn't be with someone if you are going to cheat on them. Maybe you should think about how you would feel if they cheated on you. Also why waste yours and their time with a relationship when you don't really care about them anyway?
2007-03-18 12:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, most men would feel guilty but try telling that to the one-eyed trouser snake at the time and we would do it again.
2007-03-18 12:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by Neil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just think you haven't fully been in love yet if you feel no guilt. because if you loved them, you would never hurt them. so you are probably a young bacholer who is just having a good time. just get friends with benefits, dont hurt anymore girls while you are on your way to become a man!
2007-03-18 12:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! if someone cheats on you that means they dont love you. basicially if you cheat that means you like that person better than your other lover. If you keep it inside you should feel bad. in your case you don i would HATE being your gf. You need to be a man and tell your gf you cheated. you were willing to stick your **** into someone else so le your gf dump your *** and be with someone who will respect her ALOT more than you can. guys who cheat are SCUM BAGS
2007-03-18 12:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sheri M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋