okay so me and this guy we text all the time and we are wicked good friends.We have done stuff but i told him i wont have sex with him until we are dating and he understands that. I really kinda of want to have sex with him too He gets me and we are pretty much best friends. But i want more but i am scared that if we have more than a friendship then it will screw up our friendship if it doesnt work out and it might...so if you could help me out i would love it like what should i do?
2007-03-18 12:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it! why not live life as if it was your last day? life is meant to be risky and take chances... if you guys have a history then maybe something is meant to happen.. first of all sit down and talk to him let him hear what you feel for him..and let him talk to you and ask him what his feelings are.. but if its a sexual attraction.. and you guys are both wanting to fulfill it?! then enjoy =)
2007-03-19 11:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of it this way, yo should really be friend with the guy you are dating. That will always help in the long run. But if the only reason you want to make it official is because you are ready to have sex with him, don't do it, wait. That should never be a reason to start anything. Friends with benefits never work. There could be a chance that the friendship will end off worse than if you were in a relationship. It all depends on the risk you want to take. Good Luck
2007-03-18 19:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should weigh it out carefully. Always use great caution when dealing with good friends. There really hard to find these days. In my life it has backfired on me so I wouldn't advise it. Cause it just ain't the same when its over. Then you have lost a special bond with that person forever.
2007-03-18 19:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you cross that line and sleep with him the friendship generally does change. If you both are that close, maybe it will turn into a great relationship. I would say give it a shot. as close as you two seem like you are, i definitely think it's worth a shot.
2007-03-18 19:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's too short to be concerned, just do it, life is supposed to be exciting and full of risks. Even if you guys go out and break up, and it ruins your friendship there is other fish in the sea.
2007-03-18 19:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits is a terrible idea. plz don't do it. and you don't seem old enough for sex yet. hold off...if you wait for this stuff everything will work out better. relationship first, and if you can't handle that together, then there's no way you can hadle the complex physical stuff. i know you don't want to hear it but trust me save yourself for something better.
2007-03-18 19:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by aerie anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can take a risk and make more than a friendship and it might work it might not
thats gambling, my friend
what do you want more? sex with him but a risk at messin up the friendship? or no risk at all
2007-03-18 19:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice would be to stay friends and if things progress into more let it but from experience dating friends doesn't work out to well :(
2007-03-18 19:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by tine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋