I have met and heard about my current boyfriend's ex's, and their personalities and values are much different than mine. Does this mean anything?
2007-03-18 12:30:33 · 17 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should be glad you aren't just like every other girl he has dated, considering they are his exes.
It probably means he is getting a better idea of what he wants in a woman, or maybe you just fit his liking in different ways than they did. I wouldn't be worried, not everyone likes only one type of person, and everyone is different anyway.
2007-03-18 12:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by ppodjames 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of two things. 1) he doesn't know you that well yet 2) He's ready to move on to a more serious kind of dating, and the other girls were warm ups and play things, and he's looking for new, different, and better things.
The best way to know, is ask him why he's dating you, what's he going to do, lie? How could he possibly know why you are asking and what kind of answer you are looking for? The other thing to think about is that those other girls are just it, they're ex s he's moved on, you shouldn't dwell on it
2007-03-18 19:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are his ex's because they didn't cut it for him. He wanted to try something different, which is you. Maybe he woke up one day and realized that he's been going for the wrong women.
2007-03-18 19:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Bebe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-03-18 19:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means leave it alone unless you want to be his ex also.
Your over thinking sister. Enjoy your time and stop trying to see the future.
2007-03-18 19:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Considering his tastes have changed, that largely depends on how you see your personality in relation to theirs. If you are kinder, wiser, etc then they are, I would say they are his ex's because you have traits he really admires. On the other hand, if you see yourself more wild, risque, and easy, then he has other things in mind...Hmmmm
2007-03-18 19:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by jeanhack42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think this is a good sign. After all, these girls are all his "ex's". They didn't work out. You wouldn't want to have all of the same qualities as the girls who didn't work out. :-)
Good Luck.
2007-03-18 19:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a good thing? Since their personalities didn't work out maybe yours will :) Don't worry.
2007-03-18 19:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably wanting something different..Don't read to much into it .
2007-03-18 19:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe nothing that you hear, and only half of what you see. Maybe he wanted a change.
2007-03-18 19:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋