It is just MOST of my male friends cheat on there wifes/girlfriends. Is this really as common as I think it is. Tell the truth guys are you a secret cheater? I AM.
2007-03-18 12:28:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, most guys 'cheat'. And so do most women. It ought to be obvious just from watching daytime TV how much is going on in both directions. So isn't it about time we all starting dealing with it instead of acting as though each time it happens it's the end of the world?
We're simply not built to be monogamous, despite all the rubbish that's spouted on the subject. There are monogamous and polygamous animals, and their respective physiology shows it. We're between these extremes, and our physiology shows that, too. Human testicles - for our body size - are about midway between the tiny ones possessed by monogamous animals and the giant tanks of a gang-mating ape. We produce hunter-killer spermatozoa specifically designed to attack the sperm of competitors. And women aren't wasting time either: just from blood tests it's plain that as many as 25% of children born were not sired by their official fathers.
Who cares? Sex is fun, and it would be a nicer world if we stopped getting so upset about this. It doesn't mean they don't love you, or you don't love them - if it did, all the relationships where so-called cheating is going on without being discovered would be fake, and that would be over half of them. If your relationship is based entirely on what the two of you do with your genitals, it's a pretty lousy one.
CD
2007-03-18 14:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not all true with all guys. I for one do not cheat. A commitment is exactly what it is. If you fee you have to cheat then your word means sh**. Most men cheat cause woman out number us 10 to 1. Our options are almost endless with those odds. The temptation is crazy. Thats why some guys get married and move to a small town where most of the women chop wood.
2007-03-18 12:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Im not a guy, but I can say that a lot of guys do cheat, not all though. Ive been cheated on twice.
2007-03-18 12:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most guys allow their small heads to overrule their (hopefully) smarter ones once in a while. I have. It isn't exactly a way of ensuring harmony in a long-term relationship, though. Women seem to indulge in stupid sexual behavior about as often as we do, but they're better liars.
2007-03-18 12:36:52 · answer #4 · answered by virtualguy92107 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not a secret cheater, you are an undiscovered scumbag and I hope your wife/gf finds out, I would hope that you were cheated on but guys like you often don't have a heart to bleed so you probably wouldn't care even if she did.
2007-03-18 12:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by Elle 3 · 4⤊ 4⤋
not all of us cheat i been with my wife for 13 years
2007-03-18 12:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by r n 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would say not most guys. Some do. I for one never did never will..Get out of the old befor you start with the new is my motto.
2007-03-18 12:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry G 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I never cheat when in love but i don`t love all I date
2007-03-18 12:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was dating 4-5 girls at the same time long time before. But it leads to no where...
I'm sincere now...
2007-03-18 12:39:55 · answer #9 · answered by MK <>< 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i was with my ex wife --- and i have made the decision not to cheat any more and i am keeping to that decision
2007-03-18 12:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋