2007-03-18 12:26:09 · 29 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you let him go and let him be with his family . if you love him and he lives his family will that make you happy ? wouldn't it make you think that if he left his wife for you he can do it to you too ? leave you for another one ? date a single .....
2007-03-18 12:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, even if you really do love him. My best friend dated a married man who claimed he was in a "bad" marriage. lets just say it turned into one big mess. Not really a good idea to date a man till he is truly single. How would you feel if you had a husband and he was seeing someone on the side? Not a great feeling. think if the wife and how much this would hurt her.
2007-03-18 19:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by carriec 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord sweetie, where to begin! The stats on a relationship working out that started because of an affair is only 5%, thats it! I know, I did it. After a long 6 yrs. in and out of an affair with a guy who I love completely and who loves me, I can say in a way it was worth it and in others its not. We split several times, one reason was because I wanted to make sure he did everything possible, as did he, to make sure that he tried to make his marriage work. I've been with other people and even had a child with someone else. Now he left his wife and we are together. And guess what, he carries so much baggage because he still feels like its an affair. We don't want his family to know right yet, so they don't, because he doesn't want them to think I'm the reason he split, which I'm not, because when I am introduced he wants them to view me in a good light, yet everyone else knows about us. It's like he's two different people trying to live one life. It hurts and its hard. So even if your guy does leave his wife, it doesn't mean the fairtale ending comes true. It's wise to end it now than to be stuck where I'm at, because I'm so lost, and its hard to accept he has another life where I don't exsist, atleast not yet. I love him yet I'm losing myself in the process.
2007-03-18 19:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by ladilasvegas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to watch people. When a person you know is a compulsive liar and cheat then the chances are that they are going to lie and cheat with you. If a person is really nice to his freinds and familly then he will be really nice to you. So in the end if a MARRIED man is dating you that means he's not keeping his vows so ask your self how long will it be before you become the victim and join the ranks of his wife?
2007-03-18 19:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE IS MARRIED. you should not fall in love with a married man, but i guess that's too late. So you should tell him so that he can either get a divorce and be with you or you guys can end the affair.
2007-03-18 19:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by shepp959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait patiently for him to leave his wife?Fat chance,what are you thinking?You are setting your self up for a broken heart,and the fact that he's cheating on his wife with you,should tell you something about his character.If he does leave his wife for you and things get a little shakey,are you going to trust that he will be faithful to you?And whatever he's telling you about his situation with his wife,is probably so far from the truth,you are being snowed,and so is she. Good-Luck,your gonna need it.
2007-03-18 19:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a very hard lesson-he doesn't belong to you and while you're sitting at home by yourself, he's enjoying time with his family. No matter how he claims the wife's a ***** or doesn't understand him, etc, the truth is, he;s proably never going to leave her, and you'll finally learn how much time you've wasted on someone who just isn't available.
2007-03-18 19:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that he will leave his wife for you. Does he hav chidren. I think that you need to leave him alone. If you do love him then yes it will be painful. If he does leave her for you, what do u think will happen when the two of you get into a releation. Don't continue to be the other woman. Find another man, one unattached.
2007-03-18 19:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u Love him, your heart is going to be broken for a little while for sure, but u have to let him go. Don't u ever do anything that u would not like other do to you.
Triangles are bad, very bad honey.
Sin danos a terceros, sorry but it is the truth ... let him go, now, for tomorrow it is late.
Peace.
2007-03-18 19:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by NA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do a lot of waiting, crying, listening to his excuses and lies. You lose sleep, self-esteem and time. Although some married men do leave their wifes and marry their lovers, most don't.
2007-03-18 19:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by rhymer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? If he is still in love with his wife, your better to just leave the situation alone. If she finds out, she's going to be much more upset than you would be leaving him.
2007-03-18 19:29:06 · answer #11 · answered by Hicktown girl66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋