I have been dating my boyfriend for quite sometime, and I am going to buy some sexy lingerie for him one night as a surprise. (Not for him, but for me to wear for him!! LOL) Anyways, I really don't know what the point of it is. I am not a good dancer so I normally don't give him a "Dancing Show". But I just am unsure of what the point of it is. Basically, Victoria Secrets is a whole store dedicated to it. (Basically) I was just wondering if you women could tell me why you wear it for your men, what is your reasoning. Men, tell me why you want your women to wear it. I am just trying to understand, so I know what to do more or less when I put it on!
2007-03-18 12:20:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lead up to sex? i dunno.
2007-03-18 12:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Veggie Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about feeling sexy. The more sexy you feel, the sexier you will appear to your man. It's about finding something that when you put it on transforms you into the sex goddess you want to be for him. You don't have to dance or put on a show unless you feel like it, but you do want to find something that strikes yoiu when you put it on and look in the mirror that makes you think "damn! look at that! I am hot!" Then you know your man will see it too. You're not supposed to stress about it, you're supposed to enjoy the experience, let the sexy you come alive for your man, then you both are more comfortable and have more fun together.
2007-03-18 19:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think of it a Giftwrap. It is much more asthetically pleasing to see a sexy body in lacey and colorful/frilly things. Most women say they wear it for their men. I sure dont, my b/f says "hahaha it looks better on the floor" but I certainly feel better/sexier and more "in the mood" myself if i think i look hot. I guess I wear it for myself then! And I like the boost it give my small chest.
2007-03-21 20:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nursing4me2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a womans body is beautiful and wearing lingerie just accents and shows off the body in such a sexy way. its an instant turn on for guys.
2007-03-18 19:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the point either. The better the visual stimuli, the quicker the lingerie comes off. Why bother?
-I love my sweats.
2007-03-18 19:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by lissome 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no point really, most gals wear it to show off to the boyfriends.
2007-03-18 19:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a closet full of that stuff just waiting to be worn for my guy. just to have it taken off. if its a turn on to your man and makes you feel sexy to wear it...who cares what anyone else thinks. peace
2007-03-18 19:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It looks sexy. No underwear is also fun.
2007-03-18 19:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always believed in Bare your body, bare your soul. It is not the underwear, it's who's is in it.
2007-03-18 19:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by phantom stranger 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I always favored nudity to lingerie.
So don't be shattered if he's another guy like me.
2007-03-18 19:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know i would rather watch her take a bubble bath you know all wet and bubbly
2007-03-18 19:33:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋