I was in bed with him last night, we both woke up, I fancied a bit of a kiss & a cuddle and he said he was going to watch tv (match of the day he'd recorded). I felt very rejected. He's apologetic, but I get the feeling that he would rather be watching football than be with me? Any comments would be appreciated
2007-03-18 12:18:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetheart, time to give him an ultimatum, if he is in bed with you his attention should be on you and not on the damn football.
if he wants to watch the football tell him to watch it later but you come first. and if he is in love with you then he should be satisfying you and he would soon forget about the footy.
however if he would rather watch football than be with you then there is something seriously wrong with his head.
So it is time to kick him out and move on.
2007-03-18 12:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-18 17:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watching football at all hours is normal for a lot of guys but there's no way I'd give up some lovin' to watch a match. He might have some issues.
2007-03-18 12:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by greenfan109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men want to hunt down their sex. Make him work for your affection. Start making your affection scarce, find other things to do, masterbate (if you do if you dont then well). He will start to wonder whats going on and then you'll have the control.
Another thing is you sex might be boring to him. Do you guys do it the same way all the time? Is it routine eat, suck, missionary, nut then over? Well try new things with the sex so he's exited about it then. Sounds like your boring in bed. I hope not but it could be. Good luck
2007-03-18 12:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he'd rather be watching somebody else's balls, take it from me he's going gay. He get's turned on by males running after a pigskin,instead of watching a hotblooded woman writhing and squirming with passion.Tell him if he wants any help I'll come around,we'll send him to watch american football, he might not watch it at the moment but he will
2007-03-18 12:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go watch football with him to see if that's what he is actually doing. If he seems awkward about it, then there might be something else going on. Otherwise, it might just be that he wanted to watch football, and feels like he gets enough time with you already. Just explain to him that you need cuddling and things like that sometimes so he knows your needs, too.
2007-03-18 12:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Natalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 52 and have always found sleep difficult so I often get up in the middle of the night towatch the TV or use the internet when I cannt settle. He may be the same so talk to him and find out.
2007-03-18 12:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes scare of you.. not the hate kind, but hes probably scared that what he will do is stupid and feels that he can't do it right.. i think you should just talk to him.. he is probably to conscience of himself.. tell him that you love him very much, and tell him to you love it ______ (you.. know fill the blank in).. let him know hes great. and even share experiences how u felt when you first met. He maybe be shy??
just make him feel like hes the best of the world nad that you would rather be with him..
after this "TALK" .. and he still does that.. then lay out the problem to him.. ask him do you hate me?, do you not love me anymore..
2007-03-18 12:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by flora_932 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I don't think he's watching football. Porn perhaps?
Just kidding. But that could be a possibility. Tell him that you feel rejected that he would just leave you to watch football. Guys need their space but women need attention. Football can wait.
2007-03-18 12:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go easy....He's just a bloke!
Who would know why he did it other than another bloke.
I sure as hell wouldn't. I wouldn't even begin to contemplate it.
But the fact that he left your bed to watch the football says thats he secure in your relationship.
He loves ya!
2007-03-18 12:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋