ok, so i recently liked a boy and i was told i wasnt thick enough for him and that he didnt like me cuz i was white. ive always thought of myself to be pretty ! he killed my confidence
2007-03-18 12:09:49 · 19 answers · asked by sarita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, He's an idiot. I know it's mostly the other way around, but if a guy doesn't like you based on physical attributes instead of what's in your heart, then he's a moron or plainly he just doesn't deserve someone as sweet and special as you.
Not liking someone based on race is racial discrimination. Accept it, he's an idiot and someone who doesn't deserve you and don't give him a second thought, he's not worth it.
2007-03-18 12:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thick just means having a big booty, hips, and or thighs, sometimes breasts, too, depending on the person. To some guys this is more attractive, and there's nothing wrong with that if that's their preference but someone who tells you they don't like you because you are not thick enough is most likely shallow and not worth your time anyway. Don't let him kill your confidence, I'm sure you're beautiful, you just haven't met the right guy yet, but, you will. Screw that other immature guy.
2007-03-18 19:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by *~STaR~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? He doesn't like you cause you're white? If someone says you aren't thick enough for this guy, that's a backhanded compliment. They're saying you're too smart for him! I'm sure you're a perfectly find person. Maybe you should find a less strange guy.
2007-03-18 19:14:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness!!! This one persons comment affected your confidence like that? Who cares what he thinks, there are several men out there, go find one that will respect you! That is awful to say and to reference race is even worse. He is a looser and you WILL find much better.
Don't ever let someone's words break you down though. That is one person in this world and you will never please all anyway. Hold your head up high and move on!
Best of luck to you!
2007-03-18 19:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by AE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean you're not pretty; it's just his preference. He should have used different words...rude. Don't let it hurt your esteem. White and not thick enough...forget him.
2007-03-18 19:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever pay any attention to someone like that. He is bad news and isn't worth your time. He sounds like a real jerk. Just be strong and go your own way. If you like yourself, everyone else will too. He doesn't deserve someone like you.
2007-03-18 19:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
White & Curvy?
"They see me rollin'.. my stomach
They get all jealous cuz I'm just too white and curvy"
Thick can be good, but not always, depends on where.
2007-03-18 19:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Smartass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he likes the bigger girls than hurray for him. And he doesn't like you because you're white? Umm, that's racist and you don't need that BS. Move on. So not worth the time.
2007-03-18 19:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by AlwaysAskingQuestions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that should not be someting that would shatter your confidence girl. If he doesnt like you for what you are, believe me there are millions that sees the other way.
2007-03-18 19:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Papabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thick, thin, fat skinny, white, black.. Why cant people just be friends, and stop being so judgemental. After all, who does that looser think he is anyway??...
2007-03-18 19:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋