The guys that you couldnt care less about always seem to have amazing relationships.
But the guys that you really love always hurt you.
Why?
2007-03-18 12:03:43 · 10 answers · asked by Nic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are always expecting something in return and whether you admit it or not...insecurities are always there.We are always wants attention and endless love.The saying is very true...love hurts...
2007-03-18 23:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by honeypot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want what you dont have and you dont want what you have. Thats a similar saying that relates to your problem. Anyway, I think its because you're only interested in the bad guys who are jerks, so therefore you always get hurt by them when you love them. A lot of good guys arent outgoing and fun or have those bad qualities you want from them, so you tend to ignore them. Good guys maybe be boring, but they're the ones that can last longer in the long run.
2007-03-18 19:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get better at judging character so that you can save your love for a man that really gets it. There are a lot of women out in the world that men are attracted to are unhealthy in a relationship, so it's something that we have to struggle with too.
You deserve to have a man in your life that will treat you like a lady and make you feel loved and understood, but you need to have high standards so that you don't get fooled by men that just want to play you. Keep working on yourself to become the best woman you can, so that when a well-adjusted gentleman comes into your life you will be able to be the kind of high quality woman he is looking for.
There are tons of great men out there waiting for you to walk into their life, so be optimistic and get out there!
2007-03-18 20:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your time will come. There's no fairness in these things; we all suffer through them at some point in our lives. Try not to beat yourself up - learn from any mistakes you may have made in the p[ast and move on. The sad fact is that you have to experience life's lows to appreciate the best of what is coming to you. Have hope. x
2007-03-18 19:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly every woman loves a bad boy! but in the end they just get what they want and then they run.
at least good honest men care about you and genuinely want to take care of you, they think about you and never leave you in the dark.
so it depends what you want at the time a bit of fun or a good companion.
naughty boys never ever last! but the fun is always good whilst it lasts ;)
2007-03-18 20:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't watch that lady 'cus it works both ways.
The more you give, the more kindness can be mistaken for weakness.
Seriously, you gals have totally broken a good guy an I will never NEVER give as much of myself to your lot again.
(anyway, moving on.)
So what I'm sayin is treat em mean keep em keen, the second you really give that much of yourself a lot of people freak out 'cus they can't do it back, or they think they have to, an they just destroy you.
2007-03-18 19:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Whatever. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you allow yourself to be vulnerable --- its part of getting into a relationship i suspect that part of the difficulty is that both parties dont work at it --- i wont say its hard work just that you need to be (especially for guys) attentive to your partners needs especially the emotional needs
2007-03-18 19:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is to try not to repeat the same mistakes.
2007-03-18 19:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need a nice guy, but no one wants them, so they just dont care
2007-03-18 19:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always test the water before you dip and never dive straight in.
2007-03-18 19:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by gary r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋