over the last few months my boyfriend has seemed less & less bothered about me&our relationship. For about a year he was so caring and considerate,we spoke all the time he always wanted to see me&made so much effort.the last few months the amount of contact we have has decreased,i dont see him as much& he doesnt seem to be bothered what i've been doing when in the past he has always wanted2 know how i was, where i was etc.I mentioned this to him,he said we dont c each other as much because he has started a new job&is really busy with that-which he is...but he finds time to go out with his mates at the weekend,but doesnt c me for up to 3weeks!we go days with out speaking,he says he is just as bothered as he used to b but he is just not the same,it really feels like he doesn't care which is really hurtful as he was not like this at first.i have mentioned this to him about 3 times & he has started to get really annoyed when i bring it up and says he's busy with work,what should i do?
2007-03-18 12:01:17 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE DONT WANT YOU!!!....take the hint!
2007-03-18 12:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him love. If you were my daughter thats what I would tell you to do.Your fella is being the big licks, new job, new friends, doesnt ring you, a decent boyfriend would, so forget the texts, you get a life and if he such a good boyfriend and wants to be with you he will get in contact and if he doesnt you will move on and find someone better.
2007-03-18 19:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by janeybest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to tell him how you feel and see what his reaction is.
If he honestly doesn't realise what he is doing then he has a chance to put things right and start paying more attention to you.
If he doesn't seem bothered then I'm afraid its time to dump him and find someone who does care.
2007-03-18 19:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by blazing_staruk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to shape up or ship out, im sorry to say but it sounds like his having it off, ur better off with out him, someone who does not put you first is not worth it. get a dog a chihuahua is a great breed
2007-03-18 19:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not for each other get rid of him. Dont waste your life.
2007-03-18 19:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
d handwriting is on d wall, he is fed up but does notv want to be d one to end d relationship
2007-03-18 19:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the asumption your a girl come to me and i'll give you all the attention you need.
2007-03-18 19:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by gary r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds like he is moving on - & so should you.
2007-03-18 19:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋