A I just did the deed a few times with a girl I finally asked out a while back and I really don't want a serious relationship right now and I have told her that. So my question is basically does it seem like I'm just using this girl for sex, becuase if it does than that's not what I'm trying to do!
2007-03-18 11:56:18 · 17 answers · asked by chgriffin85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then what are you trying to do?? your double talking ... and there is noting wrong wioth having sex .
2007-03-18 11:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Richard J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going along with it, and *totally* understands there is no relationship in store for the both of you, then you are using eachother equally... Hence "Friends with Benefits"
Just remember that some people expect a relationship even if they have been told it is not going to happen.. especially girls that you have sex with
2007-03-18 12:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by electrowizard2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as u r honest with her and dont lead her to believe u want more than just a casual relationship with her, then dont worry about it.
Its when u lead her into thinking u want a serious relationship and dont, that it would be wrong.
Just remain honest and if the subject comes up about a relationship, then be honest with her and what u want.
Good luck to u.
2007-03-18 12:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are just using her for sex, you said yoursefl you don't want a relationship, so what else are you doing? Checking out underwear styles???
But don't worry, as long as she's OK with it and you've told her all this, it isn't wrong. Just use birth control.
2007-03-18 12:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical behavior, I would say don't do the "deed" with anyone your not exclusive with. Cause you might hurt this girls feelings. I don't know why she would sleep with you after you told her that, but if she is down with friends with benefits then whatever just be safe!
2007-03-18 12:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? Of course you were using her for sex or,
not being interested in a relationship,you wouldn't have asked
her out. It's not so bad,you don't have to be a hypocrite about it. It's human nature-but ,it's not really something you should do.
2007-03-18 12:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Alion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong if you are just having sex with her while she thinks that you and her are more than just friends and that you have something special. however its not wrong if oth of you just want sex and you are cool with having sex with each other. don't make her your girlfriend just becoz you think you are doing wrong..............you will end up hating her for making you do such a thing. Just enjoy it so long as it last and talk to her if you want to take it to another level with her.
2007-03-21 01:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, if the two events thinks that it is suited, and that they are superb with it, then yeah. i think so... there is not any longer something incorrect with it. in actuality, I applaud them. maximum human beings have a 'lovey-dovey relationship' like this, and don't truthfully tell one yet another that they are extra involved approximately intercourse than one yet another... they are completely easy. good activity!!!
2016-12-15 03:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it seems that yo are useing her. dude you just need to find a girl you realy like
2007-03-18 12:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Destiny R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't ask ppl that. thats somethin you have to ask yourself...do you feel like your using her? aks yourself that. and if the answer is yes. then you should call her and tell her that you wanna keep it on a friendly, strictly dating level and nothin sexual. you know. because you dont know how she really feels about you. you know. she may like you alot and you dont want to lead her on
2007-03-18 12:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋