Three years ago I started to have a crush on this girl with whom I was classmates,but I didn't have the guts to tell her that I liked her.After a while I started another relationship,we were moving on nicely until after one year I understood that my classmate kinda liked me too,we went out(we didn't date but we went to movies,parks...)and I still was friends with my girlfriend.After sometime I asked my classmate to be my girlfriend but she dumped me and made some excuses like she was 2 years older than me,she didn't want a serious relationship,...but as a matter of fact she was a kinda girl who liked play the boys around,she wanted to always have someone to fool around with and at the same time someone had proposed her marriage but she was in two minds about that.Anyway,I cut my relationship with her and so did she but after a couple of month she started to send me SMS,she called me a number of times but this time I dumped her.Now it's 7 month past but I can't get her off my mind,why?
2007-03-18 11:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by soroush_1363_ss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm still friends with my girlfriend.
2007-03-18 11:26:18 · update #1
Because you still have feelings for her.
2007-03-18 11:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you why you can't get her off your mind, buddy...It's because there is no closure in this little tango of yours.
You haven't moved on.
And neither has she.
I think...You should talk to her. I have been in a similar situation such as yours. I was in the girls place...Bouncing back and forth and playing a lot of head games...But I really did care about the guy...
We just both had to grow up and mature a little before we could seriously talk things out and deal with that "emotional crud."
It's been about four or five years...it took us that long of...let's be friends...let's not be friends....to finally get us to snap out of our immature way of thinking.
now we're together and we are happy....really...happy...we still have problems...but we work through them now rather than just blow up at each other and walk away.
i don't know whether or not she is the one....
but you obviously still care about her...and i suggest that you talk this out with her....maybe you can get some answers to questions you didn't even know you had.
it wouldn't hurt....^_^
2007-03-18 18:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby You can't get her of your mind because you really like her even after what she did to you you still like her. Why don't you start arealtionship with another girl so then you can forget about that girl.
2007-03-18 18:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by wa3d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have been in love, and i don't mean to get all mushy, but it happens. You need to meet some other girls. Trust me, been there done that. And i went out with four other girls before i could forget one.
Time heals all wounds
2007-03-18 18:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by Billy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy ur in love with her and u want her back she is sorry i can tell by the way u out your words. she wants u now and maybe she is in love with you and wants to change for YOU no one else. maybe she is not the girl she used to be. give her a chance. call her or message her. us still have feelings for this girl obvisly go back to her and try and make it work.
2007-03-18 18:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by missy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's the keeper of your heart.
but i don't like dating younger guys either.
2007-03-18 18:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋