hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i asked her what her name is, it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
i am only wanting her as a friend for a couple of years. then ill ask her then when we're really good friends. ok thank you plz wait for additional details ok ty!
2007-03-18 11:14:02 · 7 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ok i coudn't fit everything in the question. she is beautiful. she has two friends that at a retreat had a party. they invited me to it so i got to talk to them. so now i can just talk to them. should i make friends with them or not? then what should i say to them that would get sarah to talk to me? plz i need help. thanks
2007-03-18 11:14:19 · update #1
Ok. I am 13 too. Go to her friends first. Ask them what they think about your situation. If they think it's looking good for a relationship then become friends with her and go from there. If they say that it isn't looking too good still ask to be friends...you never know, friends can be very wrong!
Definetly become friends first!
Also...friends might know some secrets about her!! Maybe she likes you too!
Go for her!
Good luck!
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2007-03-18 11:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not get anywhere if you don't let the girl know your feelings with her. Just walk up to her and say, "Sarah, I think you are a wonderful person, and I would like very much to know you better, and become your friend. If it is acceptable to you, we can exchange phone numbers and talk."
This expresses your intention and it will also give you an indication of how she feels towards you. Don't be a coward, you have to take risks in relationships. There is no other way. Good luck.
2007-03-18 18:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, to be 13 and having those first "feelings" for the opposite sex.
Just be youself and get a hobby like guitar or something to take your mind off the situation and funnel your emotions into.
2007-03-18 18:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by ©2009 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her to go rollerskating, your parents could drive you there and pick you up! I'm sure your parents would be willing to do that!
2007-03-18 18:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that i bet nobaody can give me a good ansewr and that is bc you won't except any good ansewrs!
2007-03-18 18:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by re f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aready asked this! do you have alzhiemers or something?
2007-03-18 18:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what you say at that age its all gonna be dumb any way
2007-03-18 18:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋