I've been hanging around with this girl lately. We aren't going out. It started when I was told that she liked me about 4 weeks ago. I've hung out with her about 3 times on weekends since then, everytime we had a pretty good time. I don't think I've done anything wrong, but all of a sudden this week, idk if its me or what, but she seemed to stop flirting with me so much and hasn't called me to do anything unless i called first. She's been kinda busy this weekend. I understand that she probably doesn't wanna do stuff all the time, but I haven't really been annoying by calling all the time and stuff. Do you think she's losing interest, or just wants a little time off or whatever? It's been bothering me these last 2 days for some reason.
2007-03-18 11:08:10 · 3 answers · asked by ikikcurdog 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i have kinda been a little shy about having a serious relationship
so i should go and try to make the next move?
2007-03-18 12:42:47 · update #1
It is possible that she just thinks that you are not really interested.
When I've met my current girlfriend, we've gone out a few times, and i was the perfect gentlemen. After some time she stopped calling me, only answering my calls with stuff like "I've got a full schedule" or "i have to work a lot". I thought what the hell is going on? I really thought we were going somewhere and she starts cutting me of :(
So i bought some nice flowers, picked her up from work unannounced and told her that i felt drawn to her and that i really like her a lot.
she the told me that she thought i wasn't serious, and she didn't want to be just a friend, because she really liked me too *g*
This stuff can happen if you are both a bit shy and were waiting for the other one to make some serious step...
We are now going strong into our second year of a relationship full of love :)
2007-03-18 11:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and ive done this to my almost bf but only to see his reaction, or to to make him more interested to be with me. or just to make him think if he really likes me or just is staying with me because iim disponible. i advice u to go after her , dont be so proud dont wait her to call u first. try u first , u are the boy.. come on .. i m sure she likes u yet of course.
2007-03-18 18:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by sushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b4 u find the answer to any of these questions, try to sort out how u feel about her first. then consider the reliability of the person who said she liked u. it might help
2007-03-18 18:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by astralprojector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋