Every time I find that a girl likes a guy, she will say no to every guy except him. Is this the same way with every girl?
Plus, what is the best time and place to ask a girl out?
Sensitive or tough?
lets hear the low-down
2007-03-18 11:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by Billy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok...Here's the thing. Girls are fickle creatures. They are bi-polar and stubborn and indecisive...all at the same time. Poor guys. That's what I have to say. Glad I'm not one. I'd be a woman hater...seriously....Give me a gun...It's easier to deal with their head games that way....
But on a more...serious note...
Girls can and do "settle" for a guy if they don't believe they have a chance with their true target.
My advice to you is not to settle for being second best...Because you will be treated like second best and once an opportunity arises to "upgrade" that girl will be up and running.
"But I can prove it to her that I'm the best!" you say?
Meh. Maybe you can...But by "prove" I insist that you be yourself. That's the most corniest thing you've ever heard, right?
But it's the truth.
A girl likes confidence....Ok...A girl likes a lot of things...Confidence without cockiness is the best though...Honesty.
Bingo.
That's the right word. Honesty.
Be their friend first...And respect the girl...
It's easier to build a better foundation for a good relationship if their is a friendship before hand.
Trust. Respect. Honesty. Loyalty...All of that crud.
But that goes both ways...Make sure that you have a girl that emulates all of those qualities too....And don't settle for less...
Make a connection and build a friendship out of that connection...and hopefully it becomes something more...
and as for the perfect time and place....only you know the answer to that....follow that heart of yours....^_^ haha.
now i hope that i gave you something to think about....
2007-03-18 11:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Do not approach a girl who has somebody already...thats why you get turn down. You wouldn't want a girl who cheats on you right? So ask a girl who is not with anyone. There is no best time and place to meet someone. The best thing for you to do is just have fun and don't worry about meeting a girl, because before you know it you will meet her. About sensitive or tough?....be specific next time. If you mean a sensitive girl or a tough one?....Whatever you can handle.
2007-03-18 11:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by aighngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If my heart has been stolen / consumed with a certain guy, I will definitely have trouble even looking at someone else romantically. Even if his affections aren't returned, I can't get my mind to stray.
2. There is no "right time and right place" to ask a girl out.
3. Which brings me to #3. Tough with the ability to be sensitive; a man who will know when to be gentle and kind but simultaneously when to step up. I would love for some guy to be bold enough to ask me out whenever and wherever he was consumed with the moment. I say this because I am so shy that I would want someone who was bold and able to put aside his nerves to make the move.
2007-03-18 11:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by smiksmak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your ages. But for starters, find a girl who isn't interested in someone else. The best time to ask a girl out is when something special is going on, or a movie that everyone really wants to see hits the box office. Be sensitive, but not mushy. If she's not interested in what you ask her to do, then ask if there's something SHE'D like to do. Give her some options.
2007-03-18 11:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all. look at the girl. do u know the girl? do you know what her hopes and dreams are? what does that one guy offer her that her mind is on. what does 'she' think he is that no one else can replace? as long as she continues to 'dream' about that guy...as long as she in her own mind thinks there is some glimmer of hope for him...she will keep that same dream...with him. the moment she gives up that dream of him...a new dream begins...not instantly...but it begins just the same. if the guy is with her...she's living the dream...if she's without him....she's waiting for the dream to begin. if she stays dreaming about one guy...and never gets that dream....she is only living for herself and no one else really. hope that she wakes up and allows someone else in.
(just a theory) ;)
best time and place? when she's clearly in between dreams.
sensitive or tough? it has something to do with timing and her state of mind and her surroundings at the time of your approach.
good luck.
2007-03-18 11:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are just holding out on other guys in the hopes of snagging their dreamguy.
Time and place: when you are more or less alone and where she feels comfortable
Somewhere in between
2007-03-18 11:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way it's supposed to be--to have deep feelings for one person, only (at a time). Would you like it if you had a girlfriend who said 'yes' to other guys? I think not :)
2007-03-18 11:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.no all girls are not like that but some are like that and will only settle for that one guy they like
2.best time and place is whenever you think you should
3. either be yourself
there's the lowdown for you
2007-03-18 11:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm not really because if someone likes me and i like someone else at the time yeah i'll wish it would have been the guy i like but if the guy who likes me is decent and nice i'll give them a chance because it takes guts to ask someone out everyone deserves a chance in my opinion
2007-03-18 11:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, it sort of depends on the girl.
but the main traits are : sweet, caring, protective [ not too much ], and smart.
the best time to ask a girl out is when you feel the sparks, if you know what i mean [:
2007-03-18 11:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋