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well people say that being real will give you better girls but just because im a beliver in god n have strong faith in my culture they hate it??

2007-03-18 11:00:42 · 23 answers · asked by ebrahim m 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If someone is genuinely interested in you they will at least be prepared to learn about your faith if it forms an important element of your lifestyle. I'd hope that you have a cultural heritage distinct from your faith as I think thats healthy.
But you need to be upfront about your culture/beliefs from the word go if you are looking 4 someone like-minded & something worth holding on 2!
XxCalypso

2007-03-18 12:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by edinburgh lass 79 1 · 0 0

I am a strong believer in God and have a strong culture as well but I would rather have a guy that is real and not hides from me a million times over than one who is going to tell me everything I want to hear.

2007-03-18 11:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No not at all. You need to be who you are. Be real from the beginning, because if you get into a relationship hiding that and then get comfotable with this person after awhile you're going to want to show them the real you and they are going to be saying to themselves wow this isn't the same person I fell for.

Plus you should never ever be ashamed of your beliefs. Find a girl who will let you feel and believe whatever you want.

Good luck.

2007-03-18 11:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 1 0

Are you saying that you shouldn't tell girls that you believe in God or that you have strong faith?
I don't understand your question so I'll just say that you shouldn't change for anybody. The right person will come along when its time for her to.

2007-03-18 11:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0 0

you dont get given girls!?
girls chose you, you chose girls
you cant give people!
aside from that, being 'real' is all well and good ,but no-one wants a religion or belief to be all the conversation is about.
dont ignore ur beliefs but dont rave about them a girl wants to feel special and desirable, not know every thing about how your belief's mesh with her existance.
tell them you have strong belief's but concentrate on the girl for a while

2007-03-18 11:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

some people when they have very strong views like to share there thoughts all the time its just some times its nice to talk about other things i don't wont to seem rude but religion to some people is hard to take or understand and many of the younger generation have not been brought up to it like a lot of people my age (40) maybe you need to broaden your hobbies and try some new stuff its just a thought

2007-03-18 11:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by old-bag 3 · 0 0

Well then you are going for the wrong girls, there are plethora amount of girls who are looking for some one like you. Not all girls hate that just to let you know. Keep on looking~Good Luck!

2007-03-18 11:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by livvy 3 · 0 0

Thats completly wrong, and stupid. Not all girls will ahte you because of that, and if they do then they're not worth your time!!!

I like guys who are into their faith! Thats awesome. Just be yourself, and thats how you get a girl who really likes you for you, and you'll be a lot happier then you would be with those other girls.

2007-03-18 11:04:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

some girls believe in god, which is why they want to wait for marriage to have sex

although, some girls, just have a warped view in religion, one that is very hypocritical


as long as your not trying to pressure them into any thing god told you to do

and dont talk about it all the time, "god is good" but too much talk about him is bad

2007-03-18 11:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0 0

dont be pre-occupied with what people say should happen, shouldn't happen or what people should be or shouldn't be. you be yourself and you will find the right someone that accepts and loves you for who you am and what you believe in. anyone who thinks anything other then that is not right for you. a true relationship is one where you are true to each other and don't feel judged or pressured. dont accpet anything less and dont be feel pressured by others.

2007-03-18 11:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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