This might sound weird to you guys but i fancy a teacher at my school. I'm 15 and he's like in his late 30s early 40s. He teaches technology and metalwork. But he don't teach me. Is it wrong that i fancy him.
2007-03-18 10:37:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't try anything on with him i wouldn't want him to get fired. He's a good teacher and he coaches the lads football team. Hes really cool. But the is an infomation evening for 3rd years who have opted to go into 5th year (i'm skipping 4th year) he's going to be giving a talk on the subject he teaches. Should i miss the evening cause i already know he's gonna be on his own after the evening and my parents are not coming because they are busy. So should i stay away from the information evening
2007-03-18 10:51:00 · update #1
No i do fancy guys my own age but i mean i really fancy this teacher.
2007-03-18 10:53:11 · update #2
I used to fancy teachers, they're still people, just don't expect anything, skins is not a real life story, teachers don't date students without getting fired from their job and they're likely to have families of their own anyway, especially if they have their own kids they won't be interested.
2007-03-18 10:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by agius1520 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, Aslong as you do not think about going out with him because you are still a minor and he is an adult. But to have a crush,yes When I was in school I had a crush on at least 2 teachers that was a good feeling. FANCY ON!
2007-03-18 17:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have that attraction towards him, but he is a lot older than you are. Yes, it is wrong to have those thoughts for an older person even though he doesn't teach you. You should not even consider in trying to approach him in any way. Stay with people your own age. Or, stay away from this teacher!
2007-03-18 17:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a break.
If he's got any sense he won't be interested in a 15 year old girl, so don't delude yourself.
Admire him from afar and in 10 years you can look back on the experience with fond memories.
2007-03-18 17:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Do not trust low score answerers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I don't think its wrong that you fancy him - you can fancy however you like - but nothing should happen between you and this bloke -because at his age he'd be taking advantage of your naivety and youth & he wouldn't be seeing you in the way that yu'd want him to if he made out he was interested! trust me
Calypso x
2007-03-18 18:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by edinburgh lass 79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can that be? it's very odd because 2 months ago you were 18 and pregnant, i thought as we got older the years went forwards not backwards!
2007-03-18 17:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not unusual for a student to find something about a favorite teacher, determined so for whatever reason, attractive but it is dangerous to persue......
not only will you affect your life but could possible bring great harm to his reputation as a teacher, especially if the feelings are not returned.....
if they are - you best better run while you can!
2007-03-18 17:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no! its quite normal to get a crush on an older man at your school for many different reasons! but just try forget about it! as it can NEVER come to anything as its ILLEGAL!
try looking at boys your own age hunni!
2007-03-18 17:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people get a crush on a teacher at some stage or another-thats all it is is a teenage crush.
2007-03-18 17:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by angela n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe a lot of girls get a crush on one of the teachers. But they outgrow it.
2007-03-18 17:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋