seriously...i dont know what to say....
i gave my (female) cousin a hug last night as i was leaving the pub and she slipped her hand into my jean pocket and grazed her hand past my private areas
,,,you know when you see that look in somebodys eye??
its making me uncomfortable yet what can i say?
2007-03-18 10:24:28 · 18 answers · asked by villa_mad_lad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Whoa...wow. Tell her that makes you highly uncomfortable because you are family. She might have a crush on you, which is normal, but acting on it is not normal.
2007-03-18 10:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might try telling her that you love but only as a cousin and that you feel uncomfortable with her touching you in a sexual way. If you think it is inappropriate then tell her that too. You might also remind her that if cousins procreate with each other then many times their children will have some sort of deformity not only physical but also developmental.
2007-03-18 10:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by V H B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is make your mind up time. If she was only joking around, as people do, especially cousins,you will seem silly if you mention it. Also, if your cousin was serious and you went along with it, that would be a major problem and could lead to trouble! Probably best to forget it and steer clear in future.
2007-03-18 10:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by R.E.M.E. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it made you uncomfortable and you dont want her to do it again.
Were you brought up as cousins because that is kind of weird
2007-03-18 11:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin is not to be trusted. Stay away from her because sooner or later she'll have you in her bed. Let her know that her sexual advancement upset you. Good Luck!
2007-03-18 10:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends what you WANT to say. If you are uncomfortable about it don't give her the same kind of hugs.
Unless you want to take it further you do not have to say anything
2007-03-18 10:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your not into "kissing cousins" and if you did get it on your kid's would be retarded, do you really want that to happen?
seriously tell her your not interested and you'd rather she didn't touch you in such an intimate way!
2007-03-18 10:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by The Original Highbury Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. You were in a pub; drinkies were had by all; inhibitions get lowered; and besides, it was probably a mistake.
2007-03-18 12:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by marie m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would avoid her like the plague for a very long time - let's hope she gets the message.
If she arrives somewhere when you weren't expecting to see her, get up and leave. She'll get the message eventually.
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2007-03-18 10:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Leah 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you hillbillies ? for a start i think you live in fantasy island as all you questions are about women either lusting or hitting on you ! i think you sit day in day out on your computer pretending to be a sexy young man when REALLY your a fat balding old f**t !x
2007-03-20 12:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by maddie xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋