Her family is falling apart, her mom and dad wont stop cursing at each other, and she gets caught in it. her dad has threatened to put her mom in a nursing home cause she is in a wheelchair. if that happens, she moves to oklahoma, if that happens she'll never see my mom or stepdad again. if she moved shed have to live with her dad and stepmom (lets just say her stepmoms not the nicest person in the world) Her stepdad and mom talk bad about my dad in oklahoma. just cause her mom dosent love him anymore dosent mean that she doesnt. she always get put in the middle.
Any advice for her??
2007-03-18 10:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by rsclflat 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a very confusing Question at times it sounds like you are talking about a Friend but then near the end you sound like you are talking about you. Maybe with a little more info like exactly why why her step dad and mom would be talking bad about your dad in Oklahoma why doesn't her mom love him anymore its first person its confusing need clarification.
2007-03-18 10:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Marla D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't believe that your step dad has the legal stance to put your mom in a nursing home unless she was mentally unstable and he was her legal guardian- but not just because she's in a wheel chair.
Secondly, talk to your parents and let them know how upset you are by their behavior and that you want to be a family and have a happy life together. If they simply don't respond to you (or get angry because of it) then I believe you should talk to your dad in Oklahoma. If I were you, I wouldn't listen to what your parents have to say about your dad. When adults get hurt in relationships they lash out at each other in many ways. Putting their ex-partner down is the easiest way to do this. I always believe there really is two sides to every story and I don't take any sides until I know both of the stories. And then, I don't always take a side, rather, I stand back and out of the way.
If you have a pastor or school counselor you could talk to just to ease your worries then by all means ...talk to them!
I will keep you in my prayers and I wish you all the best.
2007-03-18 10:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Jules 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she's your best friend, why not let her live with your family. she just needs someone who cares and wants her to become the adult she should become. she need love.
2007-03-18 10:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did't understand the story at the very last like the last two sentences. Could you please just give a little more information on the last then I could give you some advise.
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2007-03-18 11:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥-♥-♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call cps and tell them.
2007-03-18 10:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋