Is my boyfriend worth being with?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and I dont know if I still want to be with him. My ex-boyfriend was the best, even though he was immature (very immature). He would call me beautiful, we would talk for hours about nothing, we would just have fun being together. My boyfriend now always has to have a reason to see me, when I want to be close to him, he always walks away, and I ask if he doesnt want to be with me then its fine. When we're with people, he forgets all about me too. I dont mind that he goes and talks to his other friends, but when I want to be closer to him, again he runs away like he's embarrased of me or something. We do have our good times and those are the moments I live for, but if he doesnt show me he loves me then what am i supposed to do? He's 20 and I'm 17. I have never gotten a compliment from him either. I never felt like I was that special someone in his life. So I dont know please help me =[

Answer 1

Tell him exactly how you feel!
Relationships are all about communication!
You have to be able to tell him your feelings.

If he doesn't consider your feelings or doesn't do a damn thing differently, then you've done all you could... leave 'em.

Answer 2

Sounds like he's moving in a different direction or possibly has grown bored with you and is looking for greener pastures. If he really were into as you are him, he'd offer the compliments like you ex and he'd be willing to talk for hours about nothing and do the things a devoted b/f does. I would tell him that it seems as though you're both growing apart and express your true feelings and let him know that if the issues between you both can't be resolved then you need to go your separate ways. No sense spending so much time and energy on someone that doesn't feel the same way and won't reciprocate them. But it does sound like it's time to move on.

Answer 3

sounds like this man is soo not worth your time. if he does not want to be around you then why the heck does he have a girlfriend? if he cannot at least acknowledge you in a crowd then he obviously has issues. no guy should make you feel this way or treat anyone in this manner. i say, your too good for him anyway. if youve never got that feeling of being someone special from him, then maybe your not. and that should mean he's not special to you either. sounds like he's totally out of line, and you deserve MUCH better. i think a boyfriend is someone who is suppose to be there for you to talk to and get close with. someone who will comfort you in need and see you even when there is no reason. the reason is just to see you because he loves you. if your not feeling this from him...its probably best to let him go. he may not find anyone else, but thats his problem . no one wants to be with someone like him. and you never know, you might as well teach him a good lesson. and for you, i know you'll find someone about a 2974398472974923x's better than that flooze. good luck& best wishes. =]

Answer 4

It's obvious that your current boyfriend has no romantic feelings for you. Walking away from you and not willing to share you with his friends is a sign that he's embarassed of you or he's selfish; he wants to keep you to himself and wants to make sure you don't meet or see any of his male friends because he's afraid you'll cheat. That means he doesn't trust you. Even though your ex-boyfriend was very immature, at least he complimented you and would talk to you. Your current boyfriend may be a little shy and a little selfish.

Answer 5

I think that you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend which is holding you back in your current relationship ( you should probally explore why you still what you feel for your ex) and i don't think your current boyfriend is worth being with..since he does not show you much affection. If I were you I wouldn't date an 20 year old stick to those around your current age (i.e. 17,18) But be sure your happy with your choice, in the end will you be able to say i am happy how my life has turned out.

Answer 6

Im in the same situation at the moment too. I think you should just break up with him. From what you're telling us, it seems like he doesnt even know you! I mean even your ex treats you so much better than your loser bf. I would say break up with him immediately. Your bf probably has lost feelings for you, which is why he's avoiding you all the time. He is just to chicken to break up with you. You dont deserve to be treated like crap from him. He is just wasting you precious time. So, just dump this loser bf!

Answer 7

Sounds like he has had some problems at home. It is possible he loves you but look at at his parents and how they show emotions or lack of. This is most likely why he does what he does or he may not love you but just keeping you there for security.

Answer 8

don't compare him with past boyfriends number one...everyone is different
sounds like the guy you are with now is not the one...neither was your ex or you would still be with him
you are 17 and have your whole life ahead of you. get rid of the jerk you are with now, he sounds like he will only drag you down
be free for awhile and see what comes along

be cool...

Answer 9

He's not worth your time. Maybe those times that you live for are great, but if he's not going to give you the time of day any other time then he's a jerk.

Answer 10

Dump him, don't feel you have to stay with anyone, at your age you are learning to identify the losers. You can always find someone else