I was in love with a gal since last 7-8 months.We were deeply in love with each other.We met thru net.Then we had met in person twice but we always felt like we are close to each other.
since last month she stopped chatting with me,she told me her parents are keeping eye on her...
But jst now I came to knw tht she got engaged last month..
i dont knw wht to do..i m totally depressed.i knw tht she has always loved me a lot,but...
tell me wht to should i do to come out of this...
2007-03-18 09:56:00 · 8 answers · asked by amols 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Found the girl on net, met just twice, a relationship that's just 7 to 8 months old. Buddy, you are jumping into decisions. That's definitely not love. Look at your life. It's moving on. Enjoy the scopes. Don't just confine them to this girl. She's not your true love. I'm sure you will find one when you are ready for it.
All the best...
:-)
2007-03-21 19:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you guys only seen eachother twice? This is why long internet dating does not work.. hunny... if she loved you alot like you said she wouldn't be seeing someone behind your back and then getting engaged to them. I'm sorry you feel that way. Now I think you should get yourself out there in the world, find a hobby, make more friends.... I know what you are going through in a way.. I feel the same way.. a man I loved and was with over a year and a half pretty much left me for a chick with a kid.. and now he won't have anything to do with me. It was hard at first, but I went out to the bar ALL the time after that.. which was good in a way because I wasn't lonely and I made a ton of freinds. And now I am part of the Boys and Girls Club. So, just keep yourself busy,
2007-03-18 10:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tara Bara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only have control over yourself and no one else. I'm sure she still loves you, however her family may have influcence her to get in engaged. However, in any event I would call her again and talk to her to make sure that this is her decision solely by her ownself. If so, you will need to accept this and go on with your life. During life we meet special people that come through our lives; however, the one who's destine for you will never leave you in spirit, mind and body no matter what, and your souls will meet in the after life.
Believe me; I've been were you're at and now I've met the my soulmate that was destine for me. Currently, we are 35,000 miles apart and there's nothing we wouldn't do for each other. We'll be marry this June in Bangalore and the committment we have towards each other is every lasting. The we feel for each other is unlimited and unconditional love. I will stay with him if he we're to lose his sight, legs, arm,etc-- God forbid any of these on him, however my point is that nothing will change my love for him. I love him beyond anything imagine and I know he feel the same for me.
You have a lot of love to give for someone you desire's it -- wholeheartly and undoubtly. God Bless.
2007-03-18 10:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend. i will tell you, that Happiness is a state of mind. Love is also a state of mind. You put yourself in love or in a depressed mood. I understand that when one loves somebody, it is hard to get over it.
Maybe this will help. You must understand that she obviously wants someone else. That said, now you will pick your self up. Go out and find someone else. Do not mention the event to any other woman, be Happy and like the Italians say "Forgedaoboudit" :)
Also It is said that for every love you loose, there's a greater one coming. Hope this helps. Will.
2007-03-18 10:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Will M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices:
1)Keep crying,make your life hell and waste the precious gift called LIFE that God has given you.
2)Accept things as they are.Life is not about what u loose its about what u get.so enjoy whatever god has given you.See life from a different view,u will realize its much better.
To make urself feel beter.Think that its good that she left u before u married each other because if she would have left u after u wud have married her,it would have been worse.So Thank God.
Lastly,true LOVE nevers gives u pain and if smthing gave u pain it was not true love.
Cmon move ahead,life is calling!!
Cheers!
2007-03-18 11:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rahul_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make your self busy .and think possitive that she is going to have a family with a new life and a new start. you should help her if she needs thats what friends are about . i am sure you dont want to hurt her or her feeling.
2007-03-18 17:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and find another girl.
2007-03-18 11:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by handsom_from_pune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this what v call A LIFE......
u must try to talk to her parents or try to contact with her and try to clarify the matter!!!!
2007-03-18 15:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by splendid!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋