me an my boyfriend have been going out for 2months now and he is really jealous when other guys come and talk to me. help please
2007-03-18 09:54:08 · 24 answers · asked by kt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your bf is over protective and possessive about yup that why he cant stand you talking with other guys....something in his past might be making him or its his nature you are going out with him 2 months you would be knowing abt him....besides he cant tell you what to do and what not to do...talk to him and ask him what is thing that is actually bothering him
2007-03-18 10:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by mahek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as i hate to admit it i can be jealous too. It isnt that i dont want other people around my boyfriend but i like to feel like the most important girl and sometimes i dont and i get really jealous although he doesnt realize it. Maybe you guys need to spend more quality time together. Once you guys get to that place where you are comfterable in your relationship the jealousy will dissapear because you will have love and trust.
Good luck
2007-03-18 16:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Live ♥ Laugh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once the other male guys are just male friends and the talk you mention is nothing out of the ordinary. For never make the mistake of dropping your ( male friends ) for the sake of him as well as your girlfriends. For boyfriends come and go and despite he is your boyfriend you need to have some time chatting with your friends; not to mention to have a life.
2007-03-18 17:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this, but take it as a big sign that maybe he's not the one for you. He's immature and insecure, it sounds like. You don't want to be spending all your time with him trying to justify why he shouldn't be angry or jealous. Trust me on this, I speak from experience. As soon as a guy showed any groundless jealousy, it was over the next day.
2007-03-18 16:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by karen p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't have a good relationship if your bofriend is jealous. I had the same problem with my ex. He was even jealous when his own brothers would talk to me. Try and talk to him, but if things don't change, you might have to get rid of him.
2007-03-18 16:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by dfs_berthies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may think that you like to flirt with other guys that you talk to many guys dont care if hes you boyfriend cuase they can do anything to win you or make you dump your man. to avoid your boyfriend beeing jealous be nice and straigh dont talk to other guys. and must of all make him real happy no matter what.
good luck.
2007-03-18 17:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him because guys like him are very controlling and insecure and no matter what you do he always going to find a reason to get mad at you, so it best that you cost your loses now before you end up with this guy and a child and stuck with him for life, it not worth it plus these are the type of guy that get physical abusive.
2007-03-18 17:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is like an uncurable disease. Over time it gets worse and there is nothing you can do to treat it! It is up to wether or not you want to fight the disease with him or move on. FYI: It could get really bad- abusive bad!
2007-03-18 16:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When other guys talk to you, introduce your boyfriend and make him part of the conversation. Talk to him and reassure him that you love him and him only.
If he can't learn to trust you, then your relationship is not stable and needs improvement - otherwise, it won't work. Good luck.
2007-03-18 16:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is very difficult thing to live with. He is unlikely to change. You can be as clean as new snow and he will find something. I suggest you consider breaking it off and starting over. Good Luck
2007-03-18 16:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋