he met a girl at wrk then left and he keeps in contact with her then she txts him telling him shes pregnant and he is know wanting to help i knw the baby isnt his bt the other day i looked at his phone nd it was flirty txts to her nd she was saying more bk it was like they do it all the time i confronted him about it and he says he never sent them must of bin one of his friends but the day he sent them he was with me? wot do i do i love him so much??
2007-03-18 09:50:56 · 17 answers · asked by gemma h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump his sorry A-- and get a REAL man!
2007-03-18 09:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are in a relationship with someone and you feel the need to check there phone then you should get out of the relationship. I am in a happy healthy marriage and I have never felt the need to check my husbands call logs or text msgs. If you can't trust someone you should not be with them.
2007-03-18 09:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's given you a totally lame explanation.
He's probably having sex with her because a pregnant gal can't get pregnant again (of course, unless she's not really pregnant at all and lying to him).
He's a liar.
He's a cheat.
Save your love for someone else.
2007-03-18 09:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him hun he hasn't cheated yet and I mean yet but I'm guessing he will. He's already lied to you about the texts & you don't honestly know what else he's lied to you about.
You have to decide what means more to you a potentially cheating boyfriend who lies to you easily or your self respect & the chance to meet a decent loving guy who will make you happy & treat you right
2007-03-18 09:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id confront him and find out the absolute truth. I know it might be hard to keep on the topic, as he might try to change he subject, so make a list of evertything that you want to know. Good luck.
2007-03-18 09:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by wes m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm beginning to hate cellphones now!
If she is texting him then that means HE gave her his number, or whatever the code is to text him (sorry don't know too much about cells). I'm sorry I'm a pretty jealous person, so if this makes you feel uncomfortable and your feeling suspicious about it then your probably right. I would throw his stupid cell in a pond and dump his butt.
2007-03-18 09:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sum people say dat they pregnant for e reason for u can get mad and break up with him for she can get him u luv him that much stay with him a love him even more 4 get what she say okay she flirt again beat her *** thats all I got to say
2007-03-18 10:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion: It sure sounds like he's cheating. Not only that, but for certain you've found out that he is lying. Is lying really any better than cheating? You found that boyfriend, do yourself a favor and find another one.
2007-03-18 09:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by gacain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with a guy who is doing something that is totally unacceptable to you and you tell him and he keeps doing it, it's probably time to leave. Too many fish in the sea, kiddo!
2007-03-18 09:55:25 · answer #9 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask him and the girl! and if you is cheating on you with texts than domt want any longer and dump him! and you can fine another man and you might even love him more than the other guy!
2007-03-18 09:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by eMeLyN [$] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dump for real or better yet walk away without saying a word.
2007-03-18 09:55:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋