I have met this guy :) he is almost too good to be true! the only thing that troubles me is that he is always talking about their past exploits, which includes relationships/ex girlfriends /girls who he almost got it on with (which it seems to be a lot of), and past 'shady dealings'. Also, they also he always talks about how everyone is always chatting him up!! I am not sure how I should deal with this (i am not jealous, I just find it odd), I have never really come across people who talk like this - is this normal? Its been a good few years since I was last in a relationship, that I have almost forgotten what its like?! :)
2007-03-18
09:44:41
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he is insecure, he lacks confidence, and what you see is fake. Take time to spend time alone, get to know each other. Let him know you like him for who he is, adn he doesnt have to pretend with you. Its a lot for a guy, as they are meant to be manly, have lots of girlfriends and be able to take care of themselves, but you need to support him in knowing that you are with him for him. But tis up to him, it may take time. Just keep the faith as they can be very worth while! Some need people like you, to bring the real them out!
2007-03-18 09:49:01
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answered by Frenchie 3
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i'm an atheist, and permit me to describe some issues to you. First, there are 2 varieties of atheists: Ones that are passive, and ones that are aggressive. i'm a passive atheist, meaning that I stay and permit stay, and don't concepts what others do and why they do it, see you later as they do no longer worry me or harm all and sundry. i think completely high quality with you being religious, because of the fact it does not harm me. such as you mentioned, it extremely is a loose united states of america. The aggressive atheist, which ninety 9% of them are, work together in what's frequently going on as "the conflict on faith." it is no longer a actual conflict, yet a verbal one, and that's the place all those jackasses come from and throw hatred at you. it extremely is, maximum frequently, as a results of immaturity and lack of expertise. I actively work together in discovering approximately people's faith, despite if i do no longer prepare it. in fact, i'm taking a international religions classification this semester. What maximum atheists (and intensely virtually all and sundry) don't understand is that hatred gets you nowhere. you're unquestionably precise, and that i'm able to work out which you're certainly extra effectual than them and shop an open concepts. do no longer concepts them, be extra effectual than them. Be accepting, and shop an open concepts. a number of my perfect acquaintances are catholic, and we in no way permit that stand in the way of our friendship. stay and permit stay, smart one.
2016-10-02 08:23:22
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answered by adkisson 4
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Some women like to know that the men they are with are experienced..He may want you to be jealous..Who knows what his motives are for telling you but if you feel uncomfortable with it,tell him that you're not interested in his past only the future..
2007-03-18 09:50:59
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answered by trish b 7
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he has probably never had a serious relationship in his life and he cant believe his luck that your interested ! he seems insecure but just reassure him now and again and he'll soon stop going on about his past relationships x
2007-03-18 09:55:15
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answered by maddie xx 4
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He doesn't sound like such a great guy to me. He sounds like he is a braggart and has a huge ego. He may be too much in love with himself to fall in love with anyone else.
2007-03-18 09:53:08
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answered by notyou311 7
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Why has this question popped up again? I answered this 10 minutes ago!
2007-03-18 09:48:10
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answered by jet-set 7
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well i think if he keeps talking like that u should dump him bc that means hes chaeting!!!!well im glad that i could help
2007-03-18 13:30:34
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answered by heaven p 1
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if your not happy get out now
2007-03-18 09:48:50
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answered by syd g 1
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as far as normal no but he might just be testing you to see how you will react. just take it slow and see wat happens you willknow when enough is enough just listen to yourself
2007-03-18 09:50:04
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answered by wlfbelcher 3
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these people are insecure
2007-03-18 09:48:19
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answered by SCOTT B 2
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