because my dad didn't do it for arosment he did it because he thought i it would be nice for me to have adult fun i am thinking about telling my social worker that i am involved with i have told her some things already i want to know what you think about this i think it is nuts
2007-03-18 09:11:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO it is NOT ok!
You need professional help...Tell your Social Worker EVERYTHING...and your dad needs to be Arrested!
2007-03-18 09:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Navy Mom Terri 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
NO it is not ok to have sex with children or show them your privite parts or play strip poker. It is sick & illegal & your father needs to be put away. You need to tellyour social worker everything that your father has done. Hope this don't affect you for when your an adult & do the same with your children.
2007-03-18 09:44:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ghost 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you're serious (about such a serious subject) - first, don't confuse sex, with nudity. I know most people like to lump them together in their mind, but a good wholesome, proper, yet casually clothing-optional family lifestyle has nothing to do with sexual child abuse. Nude family recreation is quite popular all over the world. That said, NO... sex is not "ok" with young children! Once we enter puberty and begin to get curious and ask questions, THEN you can answer them honestly, and forthrightly. And seeing unclothed human bodies will not harm anyone. But that does not mean it's alright ot have intercourse or play "sexy games" with kids. This is nothing to make jokes about.
2007-03-18 09:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, this is not appreciate for a farther and daughter or any children. This is called child abuse. I know because I was abused as a child. Tell your farther you feel uncomfortable. If he continues the tell your social worker. Adults that have sex with kids and etc. do not see kids as kids they see them as adults which is wrong their mind is not quite normal. Please get some help.. Let us know how you are doing. Remember it is not your fault you did nothing wrong.
2007-03-18 09:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nuts is an understatement . Check the correct word to describe it.
To your dad if God is to speak :-
You adulterater of innocence and coward power freak in self denial. Your dad suppose to be a steward to your wellbeing .
He lied to you..because he get thrill to see your innocence curiosity ..cheap thrill more like it.
Ask him to get thrill else where.He is an adult you not an adult..so he get the fun and thrill..get it .That is why you think its nuts , he is more than nutty. It may lead to further things which you do not know and he ask you do you want it..feel good , and he claim he makes you feel good. Pervert!!!
Tell your mum about it. Let your mum handle him. But ask your mum why dad say such thing like that. This have her to wake up with doubts. You tell your mum he ask you to do it ..your dad be furious ..pretend you not thinking its nutty ..just curious is it real fun..He be more careful with his thrill.
2007-03-18 09:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom-of-life 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're smart to think this is nuts, because it IS nuts! Your father should be thrown in jail, and the key thrown away. You really should call your social worker and let her know what the hey is going on in your life.
2007-03-18 09:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is absolutely not right! Children are still growing at their state and sex would cause a lot of bad problems to occur. They are just learning about sex to at the age. I think its wrong for your dad to be doing that. I know he wants you to know certain things...but everyone learns at one point in their life...it doesn't nessasarily have to be then.
2007-03-18 09:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
None of those activities are necessary for educational purposes and the children affected develop a warped sense of what is "normal".
2007-03-18 09:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay you should tell her all of it if u think shes the right 1 but i think ur father should b put in jail for that
2007-03-18 09:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sadie.♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not OK to have sex with children or show them your private parts or play strip poker, PERIOD. it doesn't matter what excuse your dad gives. it is child sexual abuse and it is unacceptable. please do tell your social worker, i believe it is very important.
2007-03-18 09:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋