Serious question for CHRISTIANs?

Question

What is the best way, or the best thing to say when you want to go up to some one to spread the gospel? How to you start a conversation about accepting Jesus as your savior to someone you do not know? Usually if you do this, people usually think you are crazy or roll there eyes and don't want to hear about it. What is the best ice breaker for this subject. Serious answers please.

Everyone gave good answers, but I am trying to go out and spread the good news to people I do not know. People around me already are believers. I try my best to lead by example, so no problem there. I bought some tracts, and I want a something simple to say to people when I hand them out to them. Nothing to, in your face, but something simple and to the point. I have been practicing. How does this sound. I just wanted to give this to you, there is some info on the back. Please look over it, God would like to be a part of your life, so please consider what it says. And scene. Soooo?

Answer 1

I apologise for butting in on your question, but I just thought perhaps it might help to have a non-believer's view too?

Personally I look to see how people act towards others. If someone is compassionate, non-judgemental and helpful, that's great. And if they seem to be genuinely happy with their lives, to take pleasure in life and the pleasures of others, all to the better.

So I think the best 'ice breaker' is a good heart.

But please remember, religion is a personal thing. If it works for you, that's great. Just accept that 'one size' doesn't necessarily 'fit all'. And if something different suits someone else, then please don't consider this to be an affront to your beliefs.

After all, I can be happy FOR you without wanting to BE you.
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Answer 2

I would say ask some general questions (not necessarily about religious subjects), listen well, and see if the person has any interest in pursuing a conversation on spiritual things. Find someway of lwting them know where you are at spiritually that doesn't force them against a wall, so to speak, - in other words, leave them an easy out if there is no interest. God can give them the interest at another time. If you "hit on them" or give them the impression you are either manipulating them or forcing it down their throats, your will be decreasing the likelihood of their ever being interested in spiritual matters.

Just an extra note: if I were a non-Christian, and had opened up the R and S page today, I would decide I didn't want to ever have anything to do with Christianity!

Answer 3

The best way is to wait until someone actually wants to be preached at. I can promise you that there are no "ice breakers" if you, as a stranger, approach me with the holy roller stuff.

*To your added note:
That is a much better approach than what I am used to. I think you should say "I would like to give you this. Feel free to look over it at your leisure. If you have questions or would like to learn more, there is contact info (or a church site, whatever you have on the back) to get into touch with me."

Please don't act upset when people say no thanks. I become frustrated and somewhat frightened when I am chased down in a parking lot and then told something like, "God have mercy on your soul," when I say I'm not interested.

Answer 4

Let the Holy Spirit lead you. Usually the door will open, and that is when you start. Ask God to open doors for you to spread His word, and He will. As far as an ice breaker...... you could try something like "Hi, my name is______, and I just wanted to tell you that God loves you." Yes, some might look at you like you're crazy, but some will also listen to you.

Answer 5

First of all you should not go up to just anyone.You need to pray and ask God to direct you to a person who is searching and the Holy Spirit will give you the right words to say. If God chooses to use you He will. Do not force your beliefs on anyone, let God lead you to who is searching.

Answer 6

I've been trying to find ways to do this myself. I think one great way to get them comfortable talking about it is to ask them the questions about what they believe. Then, they may warm up to you. I have the hardest time witnessing to Mormons (no offense to them), because the Mormons my age usually don't know what half of their religion really means, so they don't like to talk about it. I'm not sure what to say if that's the case.
Definitely pray for the right words and for an opportunity!
Good question!

Answer 7

It's hard, but I think the best way is to establish a relationship with them first. Then you want to be fairly subtle and not force it in their faces, but maybe just start by making a reference to God. Always remember to pray for that person too, because ultimately it is up to God moving in their hearts.

Answer 8

Lead by example, over time people that are close to you will better be able to understand god through your good ways.

Answer 9

I agree with everybody and I should say that it is important to establish your own example. Be good to others, forgive their mistakes, do charity, help people who needs, and then, everybody around you will see how Jesus has made you a better person.

Peace!

Answer 10

Would it not be of interest to ask non-christians how they may like to be approached?

Well this atheist will tell you this...I have no problem with people sharing their religion with me if they do so in a positive way. If they are genuine and aren't acting like my soul needs saving. In other words, if their actions speak louder than their words, I'm more likely to listen. Those who talk the talk but do not walk the walk are quickly dismissed.