ok so i have never kissed anyone, i've had oppurtunities, but i was saving my first kiss for the right guy. now that ive found him. i know he had kissed before. I have no idea what to do! when and where and HOW? also a story of yur first kiss might help.
2007-03-18 08:59:34 · 23 answers · asked by mags 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think about it, just go with it. Make sure your lips are nice and not chapped and don't go crazy with your tongue! Hehe good luck...and don't get discouraged if you feel like you didn't have a good first kiss; there will be plenty of opportunities to perfect it :)
My first kiss was pretty bad to be honest with you...the guy had really chapped lips and was a pretty bad kisser himself! But now I have a boyfriend who I've had for almost 2 years and I absolutely love kissing him. So I really think it depends on who you're kissing and what they mean to you.
Don't put too much pressure on yourself...kissing is fun!
2007-03-18 09:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by surfandsand10 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first time was with an unfaithful boy. At the time, I didn't know that he was a cheater. I thought he was the right guy and at the movies, we started making out. The next day, his friend came to me and told me about the other gurl. I cried for hours. Making out at the movies was soo nice, we were so close. When his friend told me, i broke up with that nasty Justin. I loved him, but he didn't love me. My first kiss was awesome right when i had it...but not in the long run.
Make sure he's faithful, sort out your priorities, and see if you really think he's right. If he is, go for it. If he isn't, there's always more fish in the sea. Good Luck! Don't make it awkward either, just say sutin like: I've been wanting to do this for a while..*kiss him*, theres only 2 ways he will answer.
1. Thinks ur wierd and avoids you
2. Kisses you back..maybe he wants 2 kiss u back, he might be scared like you.
2007-03-18 16:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your guy having kissed another girl before isn't necessarily a bad thing. He will probably know what he is doing, and it will make it that much easier on you.
You'll know when the time is right - since it's your first kiss and you're nervous enough as it is, a public place may not be the best idea.
Congrats on waiting for the right guy.
2007-03-18 16:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by NEONhearts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy...Everything happens in life for the first time, no 1 is expert, just be natural n calm and look for the right time...Timmings is very important, similar to a batsman shot timings, let the BALL approach to u n when u experience its right, HIT ON TARGET!!!
Start with a kiss on cheeks, that will give some idea, n later u can end up to anything...lol
2007-03-18 16:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Indian IDOL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a gentleman, you dont really have to do anything but to let him kiss you, then follow his lead as in dancing. TRy just lip contact first and notice how you feel inside and know it is totally natural whatever you feel, and you will feel your heart sort of race, but dont worry, just have fun. My first was when I was a 14yo boy at summer camp. I was nervous, yes, but we were alone which made the kiss more enjoyable. My heart raced form one end of the world back to right where we were standing, so I do suggest that it be only you 2 with no one else around-no one!
2007-03-18 16:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by element_op 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never known anyone to make such a fuss over a kiss. You need to know what a kiss is. Lips are very sensitive and if you observe babies, everything goes to the mouth in order to be felt. We don't lose that sensitivity. So the idea of a kiss is to feel your way with your lips. He may have kissed before but knowing this, you may be the one to teach him how to kiss.
2007-03-18 20:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
okay.
this is how my first french kiss went:
it was a dare really and we were in the back of a bowling alley.
so i kissed the kid right. but i was shaking so i pulled away and when i did, i bit his tongue and after i realized i bit his tongue, i spit.
then to cover it up, i said that i thought i had blood on my tongue and i didnt want it there, but really... it didnt taste so good.
hopefully yours will be better!
plus if he really likes you he will stay with you no matter what happens. the boy i first kissed is my best friend now.
but tell your bf that you havent kissed before and he will help you with it. he will probably just be like, wrestling your tongue with mine and just go with it. thats really the best advice to give anyone. but dont move it too fast, eat his face, nor end it too soon. kisses have three parts really. the whole look into his eyes sort of thing, and then go for it. and then you have to work your way to the end because it sucks if you just end it suddenly, and you dont want what happened to me to happen to you. haha. :]
and d00d. just have fun.
if you are completely comfortable with this guy and him with you. and you think he is the right guy for your first kiss, then it will go just fine. he wont care if you mess up or get nervous.
goodluck. :]
2007-03-18 16:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should just go with the flow. honestly, u r thinking too much about it! thats going to spoil it when it does happen bcos then u r gonna be like THATS IT! or IT WASNT PERFECT ENOUGH! forget about the guy having kissed other ppl, just thinkin of this first kiss as being special for you. DONT THINK TOO MUCH ABOUT IT! where, when and how? just go with the flow. the Best things happen when they are unexpected...so don't worry about it, just expect the unexpected...when the time is right it will happen and you will love it!
2007-03-18 16:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by nouvelle_moi993 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriends first kiss was with me i just whent towards him and tap kissed him it was really nice and sweet. I honostly have to say that you should wait untill he whants to kiss you but you can also make the first move if you wish. Just leane in after the date is over and you guys are about to say goodbye and tap kiss him and leave hell call you back and well GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-03-18 16:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first kiss was sweet and unforgettable, he was a older man i was 15 years old he 19 years old,he has been with women before.My avice to you is there is no perfect men but Jesus so when it is right you will no it don't rush love it will happen God will let you no Keep God in your life cause he come's first.
2007-03-18 16:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by she devill 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋